General Forum
RE: commitment issues
It's unclear whether your monthly meetings are strictly online or in real. Either way it's a good bet there is more to his side of the story than you are being told. True love being satisfied by being together once a month doesn't add up especially if limited to online only. Commitment issues may well be conflict issues despite his assurances "you are the only one". Suggestion would be to tell him you need some time and space away from the situation. If he returns with the true commitment you desire then enjoy with cautious optimism. You have your answer if he doesn't. True love really does exist tho it's heart breaking when not mutual. Good luck and don't stop believing cuz of one man and moment in time.
RE: commitment issues
There is such a thing as true love. Is rare, but then the right one comes along and is happiness. Comittment between host and member is a little different, but, in the past have been haoppy endings. don't give up, talk it through and hope all goes well. :)
RE: commitment issues
I had actually the same situation until one day when heard him on the phone talking to other girl on her language and thinking i don't understand))) It opened my eyes, so think twice about being "the one and only", sometimes pink glasses are falling off;)
RE: commitment issues
Are you meetings only online or have you meet in person?
My 2 cents is, you need to be honest with each other. Even though you have "been together" for 3 years have you both been truely honest with each other?
I wish you the best of luck though and I hope it works out for ya !! :)
My 2 cents is, you need to be honest with each other. Even though you have "been together" for 3 years have you both been truely honest with each other?
I wish you the best of luck though and I hope it works out for ya !! :)
RE: commitment issues
Good luck I hope it works out for you.
I don't have commitment issue per say, but I know how you feel cos I am in sorta the same situation at the moment.
I don't have commitment issue per say, but I know how you feel cos I am in sorta the same situation at the moment.
Phone Chat
Not a single member reply concerning the use of phone chat so my curiosity still exists as to whether or not it's used frequently and how it works. Would you beautiful ladies be willing to share about this option?
RE: Phone Chat
i think his question was more if it was used or not by host and member very often. The phone icon pretty easy to understand regardless of nationality. Ooops...maybe an I-phone icon would be better :).
RE: Phone Chat
Depends on the mic and audio quality of both the member and host. Sometimes it's great with no problems. Other times they are best left off.
RE: Phone Chat
no it is not the same. many hosts do not utilize sound and of those who do, many times the sound is so distorted it is nothing but noise or the host cannot be heard well. with phone it is much clearer, even if less convenient
RE: NOn adult
I've noticed the same tho I assume no connection exists with revealing pics to attract members vs what actually occurs in vid. It has to be just chat, right? No intent to visit the cat when prices are comparable to little shy or NSS in some cases anyway. The change isn't limited to making friends either. Nowadays, glam and little shy have photos you use to see only in NSS. Economy has changed business practices, here no different I guess. I don't hear any members complaining :)
RE: NOn adult
Many of the girls are also in other categories.. Some of my sexiest times here were with girls I first met in "Friends" category. Here's an idea. How about putting some sexy pics on your profile? You are one of the prettiest girls on here. Don't take off the jokes you put there... I loved them.
RE: NOn adult
"If not my principles ,a thought of undressing instead of chatting comes to my mind quite often :D"
That's about the sexiest thing I have read in this forum. Frustrating...but sexy. Maybe you need to release your inner "Peggy" a little, afterall its just a fantasy here. Also, you don't show much in your photos but there appears to be enough evidence to say that you could definitely "start on Monday".
That's about the sexiest thing I have read in this forum. Frustrating...but sexy. Maybe you need to release your inner "Peggy" a little, afterall its just a fantasy here. Also, you don't show much in your photos but there appears to be enough evidence to say that you could definitely "start on Monday".
cyber chat
Have you ever notice you video a lot of host times and had a good relationship during that time than you stop video for awhile and you don't hear from those host again does this mean the relationship stops on cyber chat
RE: cyber chat
Yes it is but no hard feelings I will start over time to get a new list anyway and this time i will be more selective
RE: cyber chat
How many waitresses contact you on yahoo after a meal to say how much they loved it and when are you coming back for more? So although I get your (old) point, it isn't quite the same as here.
RE: cyber chat
Quite a different thing a waitress at a restaurant and a 121 video session with a host from a cam site. I dont remember being charged by the minute to chat with the waitress at the restaurant. Also, I went to the restaurant for "Food", not for the waitress. I go to a cam site for "Fun" with a lady only. I dont see how this analogy is even valid.....
RE: cyber chat
lol,this is why I stopped visiting hosts on here,the hatred they have for members aswel as themselves is ridiculous,thanks for the reminder why i should avoid most of the hosts on here
RE: cyber chat
You are assuming there weren't extenuating circumstances involved. No reason to condemn the guy without knowing ALL the facts. He's a bit naive but give him the benefit of the doubt.
RE: cyber chat
very mature answer from someone that is out there wondering and you tell me to grow up thanks I needed a good laugh
the world is different now
a big mouthed college student was arguing with a senior citizen,saying it's impossible for his generation to understand the stress in his world.
"you grew up in a different world,"the student said"today we have hd tv,jet planes,space travel,nuclear energy,computers,the internet,
facebook & twitter."
taking an advantage in a pause in the student's litany of woe,the senior citizen interjected"you're right sonny.we didn't have any of those things when we were younger,so we invented them!" :--)
"you grew up in a different world,"the student said"today we have hd tv,jet planes,space travel,nuclear energy,computers,the internet,
facebook & twitter."
taking an advantage in a pause in the student's litany of woe,the senior citizen interjected"you're right sonny.we didn't have any of those things when we were younger,so we invented them!" :--)
RE: OKTOBERFEST this weekend!
Ah memories...that special Maerzen beer, having Nuernberger rostwuerstl, meeting so many lovely people. Fun times!
RE: OKTOBERFEST this weekend!
That was my question too! Isnt Octoberfest in October?:))
RE: OKTOBERFEST this weekend!
if it't like mardi gras-enjoy and watch out for the flying beads
RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?
It is always nice to receive appreciative CC-mail if the host has enjoyed the visit as much as the member, ;)
RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?
Mostly I like it. The host taking an extra step to show appreciation, shows something good about her. Also if perhaps you're on the fence about a return visit, words of appreciation and encouragement will certainly help towards that decision.
The instance where I would not like it...if it continues several times after the first one, like a running advertisement. Every few days or whatever: Where have you been, then Haven't seen you for awhile, etc That would get annoying. But sure, a one time appreciative response is cool.
The instance where I would not like it...if it continues several times after the first one, like a running advertisement. Every few days or whatever: Where have you been, then Haven't seen you for awhile, etc That would get annoying. But sure, a one time appreciative response is cool.
RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?
I completely agree. A thank you Email is nice but to be bombarded with "I miss you" emails every day is annoying. Even worse when it is clear from the words that the host is sending exactly the same thing to lots of members.
Try to included something that makes it specific to the member.
Try to included something that makes it specific to the member.
RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?
I always send a thank you mail to a member when he has visited my video...sometimes it can take a while to do if you have a lot of traffic...but it is still worth it when you get a mail back thanking you for the mail....but then there are also those members that I have sent a thank you mail to them and they not even acknowledge getting it ...but at least i know i sent it to show my appreciation..heck I even send one even if the person came in said nothing and left without letting me even say hello...lool...take care everyone and have a wonderful weekend...
RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?
I like to get and read ccmails, it's nice if she says she enjoyed our meeting, if i can remember the meeting and i concur then i will reply and hope to meet her again. If the meeting was very average and the ccmail smells of advertising then i'll either ignore or send a one word reply, thanks.
A few times a host has sent a photo with the ccmail which isn't from her archives, which is good, even though i doubt it is exclusive to myself.
Sometimes the host will describe what she wants to do at our next meeting and depending on her skills at describing/language it will get me excited and keen, oh it's so easy to please a man.
A few times a host has sent a photo with the ccmail which isn't from her archives, which is good, even though i doubt it is exclusive to myself.
Sometimes the host will describe what she wants to do at our next meeting and depending on her skills at describing/language it will get me excited and keen, oh it's so easy to please a man.
RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?
"pleasing a man" or pleasing a host with your wallet?
RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?
The receipt of a cc email is appreciated and does influence whether or not I will return for another visit. The lack of one indicates she didn't care whether our often 40 minutes or more were pleasant or simply a routine session from another member to increase her pay for the period. It doesn't have to be long or overstated but, at least, acknowledges our time together was valued in some or fashion. It's not unusual for me to send them one to thank them for their time. For me, it's also a way to remember names :)
RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?
Yes I love receiving cc mails from hosts, otherwise I might feel that she isn't interested in seeing me again. The worst is when I write them letters and they do not reply to me... it is "goodbye" to them.
Hosts should always reply to meembers when they write them
Hosts should always reply to meembers when they write them
RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?
Alex is such a great and compelling sexy commun icator that i think we are missing something/ it's another channel and another medium for your experiment and, especially if you get rapport and exchange messages two ways, even for a time, allows you to delve deeper into some aspects of your online relationship.
Also, like letters and cards used to be, something to look forward to receiving, something to pine and regret when there's nothing new this morning.
Also, like letters and cards used to be, something to look forward to receiving, something to pine and regret when there's nothing new this morning.
RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?
I always enjoy getting mail from you. Send me all you want. With pics ;)
RE: DO u like to get CCmails from hosts?
as long as it is sincere and not pushing for another video chat.
Doctor Daughter
A doctor was on her way to preschool to drop her daughter off, when she realized she left her stethoscope on the car seat.
The little girl picked it up and began playing with it. 'Wow this is amazing,' thought the doctor, 'my daughter wants to follow in my footsteps!'
Just as she was finished thinking that, the child spoke to the instrument & said: "Welcome to Mc Donald's . May I take your order?"
The little girl picked it up and began playing with it. 'Wow this is amazing,' thought the doctor, 'my daughter wants to follow in my footsteps!'
Just as she was finished thinking that, the child spoke to the instrument & said: "Welcome to Mc Donald's . May I take your order?"
RE: Doctor Daughter
nevermind, just take an order from next car and move on
(i bet u dont get this one either) lol
(i bet u dont get this one either) lol
RE: Doctor Daughter
Most of the McDonalds order-takers don't get it either. 75% of the time something is wrong with my order.
MeganMovieStar Rocked My World!
I've been an on and off user of CC network for the last few years . Every time I come back and visit CC I hope to find a girl like MeganMovieStar. This girl is as beautiful and sexy as they cum! I can't wait to spend a little time with her again :)
cc is not avaliable on iphone for chathost:(?
only can use like a member. its sad coz i even cant check my mail while on holidays and reply to my admirers. also would be nice to work from iphone.friom hotel bed. why not?
RE: Cc needs new cover girls....for site...lets have fun
You got me with the I'm a pervert bit :D
RE: Cc needs new cover girls....for site...lets have fun
Sorry....I went back to add something in the middle of my respons and hit wrong button before finishing...lol.....the site has a certain size they want for the pictures and I do not know how to make them that size...I have asked for help on how to do it...but have received no help what so ever...I have even bought a camera saying at the time of purchase what I need it for and being assured that it will do it...yet I have been unable to get the size that the site wants...so I stopped sending them in ...instead the pictures that I made for contests I use to send to members at xmas time or their birthday...or another special occassion just to say thank you....it is amazing how some members appreciate such things....ok now I got it all in..lool....have a good one everyone hugggggg
RE: Blast from thepast
welcome back kaz-the only thing change around here is me, i'm not perverting as much as before-all others still are
RE: gemstones
gemstone is crazy , but she deserves to work on cc , please write cc and ask them to reverse the ban . thanks if you can .
RE: gemstones
yeah thx thomas...gemmie is great girl....but it seems members in chat have nothing better to do than complain someone is omg speaking non english..yes it gets annoying...and there is an iggy button...but banning for life?..i think thats a little over the top from cc...but i hope she comes back
RE: gemstones
Such a shame. How difficult is it for some people to simply hit ignore and move on with their lives? I have never spoken to her myself but do hope that CC will realize this error so that I may one day have the chance.
RE: gemstones
CC, I'm asking u please to bring Gemstones/Cutelarisa back! Because She didn't break any rules in video! Gem is great and fun person. PLEASE BRING HER BACK!
RE: gemstones
so come on spill the beans, what did she do that was wrong to get kicked out of here?
RE: gemstones
Whether or not she deserves to be banned for life is up to CC to decide. However, my observations of her was that she was someone who showed no regard for the rules, flaunting her disregard in CC's face, mocking CC.
RE: gemstones
One of the rare time we agree, thomas. It really should be up to the individual members to decide who to visit and who not to visit. And that applies to crazy Gem as much as to any other host.
RE: gemstones
OK, this will make me unpopular but I dont care! This is an English language site, Gem has been working on this site long enough to know the rules and her English is good enough to type in English in comm chat but no, every single time she was in comm chat she starts typing in Romanian at some point. She had countless warnings from CC but still she carried on, even prefacing her Romanian typing with "sorry CC". I know of hosts who got banned for a single breach of the rules. Gem has broken the language rule hundreds of times!
You may all laugh at the new girls with translators when the words that they type dont make a great deal of sense in English, but at least they try. Gem knew what would happen eventually but still she continued to type Romanian. She got what she deserved!
I may be alone in this but I say well done CC!
You may all laugh at the new girls with translators when the words that they type dont make a great deal of sense in English, but at least they try. Gem knew what would happen eventually but still she continued to type Romanian. She got what she deserved!
I may be alone in this but I say well done CC!
RE: gemstones
I agree with you completely. She only has herself to blame! She KNEW the rules but decided to ignore it. She paid the price for it.
I am talking about banning the chat room (video chat - do not know why)
I am talking about banning the chat room (video chat - do not know why)
RE: gemstones
I can understand why Gem was banned as she broke the rules, so on that point i agree with Compusmentis. But Gem is one of the talkers in Comchat which sometimes is needed as only a handful speak while the rest remain in silence. I am sure she will be back as she has been banned before.
RE: gemstones
Roger, on balance, I have to agree with you. Infuriating as she could be, she brought energy into chat. Also, she was perfectly lucid in the pms she sent me. I liked her.
RE: gemstones
community chat rooms says "english only please"....to me please means its not a "rule' that is not mandatory rule...if it said "english only" then that is the law of the land....it just shows you that some ppl in chat wish to cause problems...instead of using the iggy button
RE: gemstones
"Please" just meant they were being polite and not officious, and didn't want to seem like they were just barking out orders. But they were clearly stating a mandatory rule to be followed. Just feel the need to defend the language rather than the host or comm chat: never use either.
RE: gemstones
She had received many warnings and been banned before? Maybe she will get the message this time, eh?
RE: gemstones
I'm glad she gone-she been warn enough, enough is enough let her join another site and talk trash about people to the ones wanting her back all I can say to you find another host cc has many more and get over it -LMAO
RE: gemstones
The only one I ever saw her talk trash about was herself. I liked that at least when she was there the chat was moving, when she wasn't it could be an hour before anyone said anything.
Funny how and "English only site" has very few native English speaking hosts.
Funny how and "English only site" has very few native English speaking hosts.
RE: gemstones
You must not had been on-line the same time as me; she did trash talk about some members in Romania language; and you would very surprise in the names of the members and I won't mention their names; she got what she deserve; and yes she was crazy but that's not a excuse
RE: gemstones
Probably trashed some of the members supporting her in this thread? You really should name them and then they can see what she is really like.
the confessional
a new priest,born & raised in texas,comes to serve in a city parish & is nervous about hearing confessions,so he asks the older priest to sit in on his sessions.the new priest hears a couple of confessions,then the old priest asks him to step outside the confessional for a few suggestions.
the old priest suggests:"cross your arms over your chest,& rub your chin with 1 hand & try saying things like'yes,i see',&'yes,go on' & 'i understand'."
the new priest crosses his arms,rubs his chin with 1 hand & repeats all the suddested remarks to the old priest.
the old priest says,"now,don't you think that's a little better than slapping your kneee & saying'no shit,what happened next?'" :--)
the old priest suggests:"cross your arms over your chest,& rub your chin with 1 hand & try saying things like'yes,i see',&'yes,go on' & 'i understand'."
the new priest crosses his arms,rubs his chin with 1 hand & repeats all the suddested remarks to the old priest.
the old priest says,"now,don't you think that's a little better than slapping your kneee & saying'no shit,what happened next?'" :--)
yes & no
on the eve of getting married last saturday,a mate was recounting the best advice he had received about the wedding.
"well,"he said,"a mate of my father'stold me that when your bride puts before you all the plans she has for the wedding,you must keep saying 'yes.yes,yes.yes',followed by a,'no,i'm not sure about that',every fifth time.
when we asked him why,he said"because if you say yes to everything,she'll realise you don't give a shit." :--)
"well,"he said,"a mate of my father'stold me that when your bride puts before you all the plans she has for the wedding,you must keep saying 'yes.yes,yes.yes',followed by a,'no,i'm not sure about that',every fifth time.
when we asked him why,he said"because if you say yes to everything,she'll realise you don't give a shit." :--)
RE: curious
Hi Avr0ra, what an interesting question. "Popular" is a relative term of course, but I think you can find teachers of tantric yoga in many cities in the USA. Authentic teaching? that might be more difficult to find.
I grew up learning judo. As an adult I learned t'ai ch'i chuan, chi gong, and taoist meditation, and I also had some exposure to related arts, pa kua & hsing-i. In more esoteric arts such as these, I think it's more important to find the teacher than to choose a specific art, at least in the beginning. Then as you develop you may have to travel to find other teachers and other ways to deepen your practice.
My two cents anyway. Namaste.
I grew up learning judo. As an adult I learned t'ai ch'i chuan, chi gong, and taoist meditation, and I also had some exposure to related arts, pa kua & hsing-i. In more esoteric arts such as these, I think it's more important to find the teacher than to choose a specific art, at least in the beginning. Then as you develop you may have to travel to find other teachers and other ways to deepen your practice.
My two cents anyway. Namaste.
RE: curious
I was invited to a free chi gong session last month. LOL what a joke, they read more than exercise!
joke of the day----
A little boy is sitting in the barber's chair and becoming anxious, so the barber gives him a tootsie roll to keep him quiet. As the barber trims his bangs, loose hair falls over his face. "Do you have hair on your goodie?" asks the barber. "Don't be silly, you old pervert! I'm only eight years old!"
RE: joke of the day----new joke
Two snowmen are standing in a field. One says to the other :
"Funny, I smell carrots too"
"Funny, I smell carrots too"
RE: joke of the day----
;)) What's the difference between a penis and a bonus?
Your wife will always blow your bonus!
Your wife will always blow your bonus!
How special is special?
When i click with a girl here (when i lose track of time, i can make her laugh and she can make me laugh too even though english isnt her language), whether we have stripping, playing and sex or not, I get to assuming i'm her most special customer. When she's in a 121 with someone else i'll be anxious and tell myself it'll be short, or if it's long she was clicked into it or didnt have a choice with some horny guy.
It makes no sense to think im exclusive since i may have something like 4 or 5 regular hosts i visit and i feel about them much the same way.
How do the girls feel about their regulars? Do you believe them when they say u r number 1 or do you keep off the subject of their live and online gfs? Keep the fantasy, or do you really want to find a devious way of checking their activity in other rooms?
It makes no sense to think im exclusive since i may have something like 4 or 5 regular hosts i visit and i feel about them much the same way.
How do the girls feel about their regulars? Do you believe them when they say u r number 1 or do you keep off the subject of their live and online gfs? Keep the fantasy, or do you really want to find a devious way of checking their activity in other rooms?
RE: How special is special?
Of course you are special. The more you spend, the more special you are to her :D
RE: How special is special?
You feel the same about 4-5 girls?You have a big heart ;) Any place left for me?
RE: How special is special?
What makes you think you arent there already?
What's a normal number?
Sure my credit card people are always telling me too much heart and not enough money. But let me count - 1, 2 i dont know where she's gone, 3 i only just met when i wasnt even looking for a 3. 4 and 5 i knew for ages, hardly see, but we always catch up and pick up like we were in touch all the time.
How do i feel about them all? Some strip and are very hot, dragging me back. Some dont for me or anybody, some not for me but they do for other guys (or they do something). All of them, obviously, you can tell frm this theyre addictive. I smile when i see them and i smile when i think of what we just did and when i anticipate having their company again another time. I've lost at least 2 lovely girls lately, for reasons i dont know. But no couldnt easily get it down below 5.
What's a normal number?
Sure my credit card people are always telling me too much heart and not enough money. But let me count - 1, 2 i dont know where she's gone, 3 i only just met when i wasnt even looking for a 3. 4 and 5 i knew for ages, hardly see, but we always catch up and pick up like we were in touch all the time.
How do i feel about them all? Some strip and are very hot, dragging me back. Some dont for me or anybody, some not for me but they do for other guys (or they do something). All of them, obviously, you can tell frm this theyre addictive. I smile when i see them and i smile when i think of what we just did and when i anticipate having their company again another time. I've lost at least 2 lovely girls lately, for reasons i dont know. But no couldnt easily get it down below 5.
RE: How special is special?
And one more i nearly forgot, such a funny and beautiful girl but so young and all we ever do is discuss the football scores.
RE: How special is special?
I really feel that the member is special in some sessions. But, honestly, I am like programmed to want to shift the relationship into real life:). So when I learn that the member has a real partner- I still enjoy time with him but with a polite distance. When we had a couple of special sessions and he doesn't have a partner but didn't do anything which could lead to a real relationship I get disappointed. But I try to stay calm and professional.
Then I shift my attention to someone else. Life is short!:)
Then I shift my attention to someone else. Life is short!:)
RE: How special is special?
all guys who visit me tell me im number one and no i dont believe.(onky believe to 1-2) the rest tell me i love u uspesial etc.but visit my gf same day :)
RE: How special is special?
the girls on here are like chips you can have just one :) they want the whole bag or at least try to
I dont mind hearing endearing words but when Im being delivered lines I get a bit mad. especially from someone I like. of course I wanna know what the hell is doing and with who but I just zip it and just joke about it. and Im not .. exclusive either why should he be.
If he really finds me "special" hes going to get back to me. Its really hard to figure out whom youre dealing with online and most wouldnt have the patience to put up with the whole "getting to know you" thing. I dont either.
Trouble is somehow online Im a hell lot more snappy and suspicious than in my everyday life.
I dont mind hearing endearing words but when Im being delivered lines I get a bit mad. especially from someone I like. of course I wanna know what the hell is doing and with who but I just zip it and just joke about it. and Im not .. exclusive either why should he be.
If he really finds me "special" hes going to get back to me. Its really hard to figure out whom youre dealing with online and most wouldnt have the patience to put up with the whole "getting to know you" thing. I dont either.
Trouble is somehow online Im a hell lot more snappy and suspicious than in my everyday life.
RE: How special is special?
i don't believe member ) but i love them all) i knwo that they have top list) and i am not one)
RE: How special is special?
i don't believe member ) but i love them all) i knwo that they have top list) and i am not one)
RE: How special is special?
Yeah you may not have got the tone. That's just a re statement of the original post.
RE: How special is special?
I do not believe a member when he says I am special. or that he loves me or non of that, because I know he is seeing others and saying the same things to them. lol...
As for checking to see what my regulars are upto.. I do not need, because there are those who for some reason just start talking about sessions they just had with someone else and as they talk of it...I can tell that there is no way that I am that special....because as they are saying what they did with another host their next word is .... ohh I am horny just thinking about it.......then he wants me to be as horny as he is....loool...
I dont tell a member he is special and I try very hard to just avoid such topics as I am not sure that he even believes it anyway....and also the min that I have told a regular such a thing he is gone...so I no longer bother....I just shut up about it....
take care everyone and have a great time on here .....
As for checking to see what my regulars are upto.. I do not need, because there are those who for some reason just start talking about sessions they just had with someone else and as they talk of it...I can tell that there is no way that I am that special....because as they are saying what they did with another host their next word is .... ohh I am horny just thinking about it.......then he wants me to be as horny as he is....loool...
I dont tell a member he is special and I try very hard to just avoid such topics as I am not sure that he even believes it anyway....and also the min that I have told a regular such a thing he is gone...so I no longer bother....I just shut up about it....
take care everyone and have a great time on here .....
RE: How special is special?
I must be in the minority with all. My favs list may have 10-12 at best tho I always have a tendency to limit my visits to one or two based on a bound which develops over time. A few lasting over four years. Sometimes you just know it's there after one session or it may take several. I'm not overly fond of the superficial chat involved in a wide variety of sessions with different girls. So when I say they are Number 1 special, it's an honest statement. In a strange way I compare cc to dating. Some first dates you want to run after a couple of hours while others you never want to end. Sure a certain amount of jealousy exists when they are in a 121 session particularly for any length of time. Yet the most difficult aspect is the general nature of the site. The likelihood of any real relationship is slim to none so strong feelings of care or even love need to be kept in perspective. Often easier said than done!
RE: How special is special?
They also know i don't reread my messages for spelling errors such as "bound" meant to be bond.
RE: How special is special?
Why do you think it is impossible to have something real with one of your favs? Is it because you are in a real relationship or because of CC's nature?
And the connected question- if something developed with one of the girls, would you forget all other favs and leave CC?
Really curious how men view chathosting.
And the connected question- if something developed with one of the girls, would you forget all other favs and leave CC?
Really curious how men view chathosting.
RE: How special is special?
I would say 99.9% impossible with one of the primary reasons being the distance. I live in the USA while they have established lives in Europe with family, friends and sometimes careers. It's an understandable scary proposition to leave all that they have known to travel thousands of miles away to start a new life in a foreign country. This involves an incredible trust factor which I'm not sure cc or any other webcam site can fully overcome. As far as the "general nature" of the site, I don't care. I'm not here to question or judge the needs or decisions of others. I just expect honesty without false pretenses. An enjoyable vid session is seeing (and preferably hearing) the real person. Virtually all of you ladies have great personalities combined with intelligence and wit. My real life is being single due to a unpleasant divorce with no girlfriend despite opportunities in which I haven't felt compelled to pursue even tho marriage can be and is the greatest thing in this world. When and if that time comes again, cc would be history!! In fact, a serious relationship would close this account. Lastly, I don't hesitate in admitting I'm middle aged. Therefore, vid sessions are pretty much limited to 25 and older. Regardless, the age differential can't be overlooked and I have to accept this, doesn't mean I like it. Who is truthful or rehearsed in the response to their feelings of the age of members is a forum topic in itself. This assuming the member is truthful as well.
Sorry………..didn't accomplish the short and sweet response anticipated.
Sorry………..didn't accomplish the short and sweet response anticipated.
RE: How special is special?
No, thx for a great and upright response.
Honestly, I perhaps wouldn't travel myself to the USA- the distance is significant, as you say.
Regarding the age- on CC I find middle-aged men even more attractive. But CC is rather an escape from reality. In reality I would perhaps consider whether he can afford and would like to have kids. (Not because I am after someone's money, but because if I quit CC- I would need to find another job in a new country. And there is no guarantee I will.) All other age-related differences are not so bad, I believe.
Honestly, I perhaps wouldn't travel myself to the USA- the distance is significant, as you say.
Regarding the age- on CC I find middle-aged men even more attractive. But CC is rather an escape from reality. In reality I would perhaps consider whether he can afford and would like to have kids. (Not because I am after someone's money, but because if I quit CC- I would need to find another job in a new country. And there is no guarantee I will.) All other age-related differences are not so bad, I believe.
RE: How special is special?
I sometimes feel like..oh he is cool...he really clicks with me, turns me on...he does exactly the right thing etc.
But I also like my real partner. Cannot make up my mind about what I want:))
And then the money from chathosting allows me to lead luxury lifestyle..so I change nothing:))
But I also like my real partner. Cannot make up my mind about what I want:))
And then the money from chathosting allows me to lead luxury lifestyle..so I change nothing:))
RE: How special is special?
was wondering how many host here would put me on their special list,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,opps-don't answer that, I get it
RE: How special is special?
It may be I have seen you in my vid lol. Somewhere in a bathroom... and you look like an actor.
I don't have a fav list...my so called fav list consists of the highest spenders- they are automatically on the top of the page;)
I don't have a fav list...my so called fav list consists of the highest spenders- they are automatically on the top of the page;)
RE: How special is special?
no need for that- I am in friendly-sexy-respectful relationships with my big spenders
RE: How special is special?
So if i hear a message it's been a while & you r missing me it's my money u r missing?
Is that your own big spenders or just big spenders on cc - does it matter who they r or just you reckon how much they spend and you can have a piece for yourself?
Is that your own big spenders or just big spenders on cc - does it matter who they r or just you reckon how much they spend and you can have a piece for yourself?
RE: How special is special?
I wasnt really originally asking about what hosts and viewers say so much as how they feel about their fav(s) - if they have feelings at all, if feelings come into it or if they fend them off. And how the host assures themselves, if they care about, being the number 1 for their (what's the word) client, customer, friend.
I thought, at least compared to some of the advertising here, hosts have said some things that ring true since they arent all admissions exactly calculated to draw viewers in. Thank u for those insights.
I thought, at least compared to some of the advertising here, hosts have said some things that ring true since they arent all admissions exactly calculated to draw viewers in. Thank u for those insights.