General Forum
RE: to guy from viewers forum about the script
Look. Both hosts and members are here for obvious reasons. The host wants to make money. The member wants to get off. Upon entering a video some hosts and member like to get immediately to business. Others like to take their time. The host to extend the video. The member to get to know the host a little better. Most members are in between. In order not to insult each other this litany of standard questions has evolved. It is the best of both worlds. It extends the video slightly and gives the member a little info about the host. But it is doesnt take that much time. I think it is an attempt to extend some respect to each other. Face it, deep down, there is not a lot of respect of the host for the member or the member for the host. This Kabuki play of questions makes the process a little more human.
RE: to guy from viewers forum about the script
I can understand what he was talking about, and I think it's not so much about trying to stall or waste time, but just that the questions and answers are sometimes banged off as if there is a list that she is just reading through. Common standard questions and answers and she is just working her way down the list in order. This is more than the usual 'getting to know you' formalities.
I've had that before where I visited a girl for the first time and she was batting out a lot of questions. But it wasn't in a sort of flow of the conversation way. Very random feeling. Anyway, I visited her again a few weeks later and I was asked the same questions all over again, in the same order. It just had a very scripted feel to it. Not like she was trying to stall for time, but more like she had been given a series of questions of possible conversation topics and was sticking very closely to the list. Not really even letting conversation get in the way. hehe.
I've had that before where I visited a girl for the first time and she was batting out a lot of questions. But it wasn't in a sort of flow of the conversation way. Very random feeling. Anyway, I visited her again a few weeks later and I was asked the same questions all over again, in the same order. It just had a very scripted feel to it. Not like she was trying to stall for time, but more like she had been given a series of questions of possible conversation topics and was sticking very closely to the list. Not really even letting conversation get in the way. hehe.
RE: to guy from viewers forum about the script
I do get a kick out of hosts who ask the same questions I answered in free chat. In general when I first say hi to a host I give them my name, age, where I am from, my marital status, what I do for a living..... I usually get the Wow...nice....whatever. Then we go to video....first questions.... So...what's your name and how old are you? ........
RE: whats it mean when
Maybe she was never comfortable stripping. <shooting myself in the foot> But I actually suggested to one of my regs that she move to glamor because she was telling me how uncomfortable it made her feel. I suggested she try it out and see if the rev held up. She is/was relatively new and I thought this would help her acclimate.
and no she wasnt stalling me or playing me to not get naked, we already been there, done that, played the game, so that wasnt her angle for the confession.
Maybe thats why they move. dunno for sure .02 ;)
and no she wasnt stalling me or playing me to not get naked, we already been there, done that, played the game, so that wasnt her angle for the confession.
Maybe thats why they move. dunno for sure .02 ;)
RE: whats it mean when
It means she got a bf but its still long distance relationship because when they get serious she will be gone from here until the relationship breaks and then she will be back in shy again :)
joke
Dirty Johnny catches his father opening a rubber,
He says, "What are you doin', Pop?"
His father says, "Son...uh...son, I'm going to try to catch a rat."
Johnny says, "Yeah? What are you going to do when you catch it? Fuck it?"
He says, "What are you doin', Pop?"
His father says, "Son...uh...son, I'm going to try to catch a rat."
Johnny says, "Yeah? What are you going to do when you catch it? Fuck it?"
RE: The Paradox
hehee.. I wish someone was coaching me and I wouldn't have to worry about saying the wrong thing or getting stuck saying nothing.
I think what brought up the question is, it interesting how "some" host not all, that are in the same studio, or area tend to ask things in the same manner way and order. I'm sure and dont think that anyone on that thread ment any disrespect, offense or generalization to anything bad.
I for one find a little, just a little, routine ok. However you do get that one girl that stands out and takes you by surprise that mixes it up. Those you tend to remember more.
Being that its all small talk and geared to break the ice. Theres bound to be redundancy and recurring themes in the beginning conversations.
:)
I think what brought up the question is, it interesting how "some" host not all, that are in the same studio, or area tend to ask things in the same manner way and order. I'm sure and dont think that anyone on that thread ment any disrespect, offense or generalization to anything bad.
I for one find a little, just a little, routine ok. However you do get that one girl that stands out and takes you by surprise that mixes it up. Those you tend to remember more.
Being that its all small talk and geared to break the ice. Theres bound to be redundancy and recurring themes in the beginning conversations.
:)
RE: The Paradox
Ah I understand you why you posted the question. Excellent. I apologies for my misinterpretation of it. Here I though I wanted to try and make someone not feel bad, but instead am recomended to shut up. And they say viewers are rude.
Great. Sorry for caring. ;)
Have a nice day. :)
Great. Sorry for caring. ;)
Have a nice day. :)
RE: The Paradox
No worries dear.. All good here. Translation misinterpretation has lead to wars before. Lets start over. No war here hun. (K)
peace :)
peace :)
RE: The Paradox
Ive just read that post and i wanted to comment also! I dont know about hosts but memeber - they all talk like one - lol:
hi, u r gorgeous! can i see more of you?
(if you stand) mmmmmmmmmm or wow - u have amazing body bb!
heheheheheehehe
not making fun of memebers just wondering, do they patronize the girls or they think thats the way to make girl show more?! is it?!
im realy currious! anyone?!
hi, u r gorgeous! can i see more of you?
(if you stand) mmmmmmmmmm or wow - u have amazing body bb!
heheheheheehehe
not making fun of memebers just wondering, do they patronize the girls or they think thats the way to make girl show more?! is it?!
im realy currious! anyone?!
RE: The Paradox
When chatting with lots of female its the easiest way to use those standard frases and the girls usually chat the same way. If get to know someone more then the chat also changes to more interesting content
RE: The Paradox
You mean that doesn't work!!
At first it can be difficult to figure out how well a host speaks English, and I think you have to say something, and it may be simple and ordinary. But I don't want to come across as patronizing, and certainly not as stupid. I'd like to think I'm more than a dildo in the flesh! and I hope I give that impression... :)
At first it can be difficult to figure out how well a host speaks English, and I think you have to say something, and it may be simple and ordinary. But I don't want to come across as patronizing, and certainly not as stupid. I'd like to think I'm more than a dildo in the flesh! and I hope I give that impression... :)
RE: The Paradox
There was another post later in that section saying how this series of questions and answers has simply evolved here naturally, and I think that is true.
Every member knows the girls will ask the standard questions about how are you? what is your name? where are you from? It's just a polite way to get started when we both know what the member really wants, and it really doesn't take that much time.
As to the member comments, most men just don't know that many compliments, because they don't use them often in real life. lol
They see girls here that look better than anyone they know, so they pull out the 3 best compliments they know and use them over and over.
Then we have a meeting once a month to decide which 3 compliments we will use next month.
Every member knows the girls will ask the standard questions about how are you? what is your name? where are you from? It's just a polite way to get started when we both know what the member really wants, and it really doesn't take that much time.
As to the member comments, most men just don't know that many compliments, because they don't use them often in real life. lol
They see girls here that look better than anyone they know, so they pull out the 3 best compliments they know and use them over and over.
Then we have a meeting once a month to decide which 3 compliments we will use next month.
Joke
What did the optimist say when he jumped off the 50 story building?
Well, so far so good!
OK, it sucks.. but then so does your Vacume cleaner..
'
Well, so far so good!
OK, it sucks.. but then so does your Vacume cleaner..
'
RE: question about gifts
Best answer I can give is either use Google or Yahoo search facilities. that's how I found mine for Russia. :D
RE: question about gifts
Try Romanianflowers.com. They have various sister sites.I have used them on several occasions and the quality has always been good. Prices are similar to send flowers to someone in uk.
RE: question about gifts
www.flowers-to-romania.com
I have used www.flowers-to-russia.com worked great and was economical. I recommend them highly. I dont know if flowers-to-romania.com is affiliated but if they dont check out for you or no one has any other ideas, I would inquire to flowers-to-russia.com for a suggestion. They were really helpful.
Good Luck!
I have used www.flowers-to-russia.com worked great and was economical. I recommend them highly. I dont know if flowers-to-romania.com is affiliated but if they dont check out for you or no one has any other ideas, I would inquire to flowers-to-russia.com for a suggestion. They were really helpful.
Good Luck!
RE: question about gifts
lol my birthday will be soon i hope flowers are not for me loool or if they are that will be a big coincidence but a lovely one lol
RE: question about gifts
or you could check this http://www.flora2000.com/Shopping/Romania.asp
The Guys' Rules
Finally , the guys' side of the story. We always hear "the rules "
From the female side.
Now here are the rules from the male side.
These are our rules!
Please note.. these are all numbered "1"
ON PURPOSE!
1. Men ARE not mind readers.
1. Learn to work the toilet seat.
You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down.
We need it up, you need it down.
You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.
1. Sunday sports. It's like the full moon
or the changing of the tides.
Let it be.
1. Shopping is NOT a sport.
And no, we are never going to think of it that way.
1. Crying is blackmail.
1. Ask for what you want.
Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!
1. Yes and No are perfectly Acceptable answers to almost every question.
1. Come to us with a problem only If you want help solving it. That's what we do.
Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem See a doctor.
1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 Days.
1. If you won't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't Expect us to act like soap opera guys.
1. If you think you're fat, you probably are.
Don't ask us.
1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one
1. You can either ask us to do something
Or tell us how you want it done.
Not both.
If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
1. Whenever possible , Please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.
1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings.
Peach, for example, is a fruit, not! A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.
1. If it itches, it will Be scratched.
We do that.
1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," We will act like nothing's wrong.
We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.
1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, Expect an answer you don't want to hear.
1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear Is fine... Really.
1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as baseball, the shotgun formation,
or golf.
1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes.
1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!
1. Thank you for reading this.
Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight;
But did you know men really don't mind that? It's like camping
From the female side.
Now here are the rules from the male side.
These are our rules!
Please note.. these are all numbered "1"
ON PURPOSE!
1. Men ARE not mind readers.
1. Learn to work the toilet seat.
You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down.
We need it up, you need it down.
You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.
1. Sunday sports. It's like the full moon
or the changing of the tides.
Let it be.
1. Shopping is NOT a sport.
And no, we are never going to think of it that way.
1. Crying is blackmail.
1. Ask for what you want.
Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!
1. Yes and No are perfectly Acceptable answers to almost every question.
1. Come to us with a problem only If you want help solving it. That's what we do.
Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a problem See a doctor.
1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 Days.
1. If you won't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't Expect us to act like soap opera guys.
1. If you think you're fat, you probably are.
Don't ask us.
1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one
1. You can either ask us to do something
Or tell us how you want it done.
Not both.
If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
1. Whenever possible , Please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.
1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings.
Peach, for example, is a fruit, not! A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.
1. If it itches, it will Be scratched.
We do that.
1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," We will act like nothing's wrong.
We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.
1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, Expect an answer you don't want to hear.
1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear Is fine... Really.
1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as baseball, the shotgun formation,
or golf.
1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes.
1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!
1. Thank you for reading this.
Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight;
But did you know men really don't mind that? It's like camping
RE: The Guys' Rules
lol... My wife drives a rasberry colored car.. ANOTHER FRUIT!! lol
RE: The Guys' Rules
One more
1. We said we would we would support the life style you ARE accustomed to. NOT the one you want to become accustomed to.
1. We said we would we would support the life style you ARE accustomed to. NOT the one you want to become accustomed to.
Another brick in the wall
Richard Wright, a founder member of Britain's legendary rock group Pink Floyd, has died at the age of 65 after battling cancer, R.I.P
RE: Another brick in the wall
RIP indeed, 1 of my favourite Rock Bands, Comfortably Numb is awesome track x
RE: Another brick in the wall
Let's hope that he and Syd are reunited and having an awesome jam somewhere in the skies.
Ideas of shows
I love to do diffrent things like daresmrole play etc and was wondering what other ideas people or hosts had for sexy fun
RE: Guys WHY LOOKING FOR STRIP SHOW IN GLAMOUR
You are directing your question to the wrong audience. Ask your fellow glamour hosts instead. The answer is because some of your fellow glamour hosts strip.
RE: Guys WHY LOOKING FOR STRIP SHOW IN GLAMOUR
read the rules closer miss.
keep in mind members can not try to force a host to do anything in any catagory. if a member does, then i suggest your email cc to imform them of such member.
keep in mind members can not try to force a host to do anything in any catagory. if a member does, then i suggest your email cc to imform them of such member.
RE: Guys WHY LOOKING FOR STRIP SHOW IN GLAMOUR
No. It has become a wide open category. The host defines the limits of her show. I have spoken to Glamour hosts who will do nothing but smile and chat with very limited sexuality and other hosts who will take everything off and play. With that kind of range of experience you can't blame members for asking for at least a strip. If you have a problem then ask your fellow hosts to limit their behavior but again...fat chance. Money talks.
RE: Guys WHY LOOKING FOR STRIP SHOW IN GLAMOUR
This is a cm site we pay so we exect more than chat
RE: Guys WHY LOOKING FOR STRIP SHOW IN GLAMOUR
Agreed. But it is their right to ask and that is what the host is complaining about. If she says no and he keeps insisting then he is an idiot and the host has an ignore key. If she agrees and then doesn't deliver then the member and CC have a problem to deal with.
RE: Guys WHY LOOKING FOR STRIP SHOW IN GLAMOUR
I DONT THINK THAT WAS THE QUESTION. THE QUESTION FROM ONE HOST WAS WHY GUYS ASK FOR STRIP IN GLAMOUR.
RE: Guys WHY LOOKING FOR STRIP SHOW IN GLAMOUR
BECAUSE SOME OF THEM MAY ANSWER "YES"!! YOU NEVER KNOW UNTIL YOU TRY, RIGHT? CLEAR ENOUGH??!!
RE: Guys WHY LOOKING FOR STRIP SHOW IN GLAMOUR
Do you really think that guys come to a adult site and pay over 1 dollar a min to speak about the weather? There are many free chatrooms where we can speak about non sexual things. We all came to CC in began for the same reason, because its a ADULT and fantasy site. Here we came for virtual sex and guys dont come with stupid reply and say, no I didnt come here for sex shows because I came here to make friends:) What kind off a looser will pay his friend for speaking to him by the way? We all know deep inside why we came here in began even though for some its hard to face it. Glamour or whatever category you are in, thats not going to stop us, we will almost always ask about the same thing. But if the girl refuse to strip then its best to leave and find someone who is willing to strip. But I take my hat off for the girls who actually make some money in a adult fantasy site without taking of their clothes. Thats is just fantastic for the ones who can pull that off.
RE: Guys WHY LOOKING FOR STRIP SHOW IN GLAMOUR
Cool and sunny, a little snow on the roof , but the fire is still burning..
RE: Guys WHY LOOKING FOR STRIP SHOW IN GLAMOUR
Just look at TellMeMoree, so much money she makes, so little she shows
RE: Guys WHY LOOKING FOR STRIP SHOW IN GLAMOUR
If you could check out her pics you would see a sexy girl, probably like you
RE: want to share my turn on:)
One of the most creative and unusual marketing schemes I have heard on CC. There was a host Cherry19 who played the violin during video but not nude and not as a toy. I played the violin as a young boy and I sucked at it but I love the sound. A string Quartet can get me off almost as quickly as a hot CC host at 70 cents a minute.
RE: want to share my turn on:)
Please tell me that when you say you 'sucked at it' you only mean that you were not very good!! :P
RE: want to share my turn on:)
Epon E Mouse,
You beat me to getting that line up here in the forum...:P
If was "sucking at it..." my mind is trying to come to terms with which end you might start with...:P:P:P
YMBK
You beat me to getting that line up here in the forum...:P
If was "sucking at it..." my mind is trying to come to terms with which end you might start with...:P:P:P
YMBK
RE: want to share my turn on:)
Gotta be quick if you wanna beat us mice you know YMBK!! Early birds have got nothing on us!! :P
Would seem to me that violins have one thin end and one fat end... although the thin end does have quite a few sticky outy bits!!
Would seem to me that violins have one thin end and one fat end... although the thin end does have quite a few sticky outy bits!!
Question for members
I am curious what happens with guys that enter only for few seconds and they live? I accept them in vid then either no words and leave, or say ' mmmm' and leave or they stay literally 2 secs, not enough time to even type a hi... It is annoying. Are you guys able to vote so quickly? I wanna say also i have good camera, connection and nice look, so whats wrong?! Thx
RE: Question for members
Sometimes the Flash player for a video session doesn't load properly and we guests are literally "speechless," because we are unable to type. Recently I have also begun to have the experience where the actual formatting of the video session page is distorted. And then there was the time the host was my ex-wife........
RE: Question for members
I think this question was asked last week and we got a bunch of pretty good answers. The concensus was dont take it personally.
Question for all Hosts.....
For all hosts whom are single right now (with real b/f or not), if you got married would you:
1. Abandon cc all together, ie never come back
2. Ask partner whether you could continue with cc and be totally up front and open with him re what you will do or will not do in video.
3. Continue on with cc but without partners' knowledge.
4. Some other combination i can't think of....
Over to you.
1. Abandon cc all together, ie never come back
2. Ask partner whether you could continue with cc and be totally up front and open with him re what you will do or will not do in video.
3. Continue on with cc but without partners' knowledge.
4. Some other combination i can't think of....
Over to you.
RE: Question for all Hosts.....
Oh, and can we also know your favourite colour and what sort of cheese you prefer :-)
RE: Question for all Hosts.....
If i would get a relationship it would be a very opened one, i can't see it being otherwise.
So my guy would know what im doing here thats for sure.Now...what would i do...that would depend mostly on him and his reaction i think.
Anyway...knowing myself i don't think i would have any kind of motivation anymore to be online here.Let's be realistic...a good relationshiop is so much fun, who would sit infront of a pc instead living the day with their partners of life!
I would miss it somehow for a while, thats for sure...i would miss talking to a few persons who became my friends in the many years i was on CC, the 100% non-sexual friends lol..I guess that i would continue to communicate with them by e-mail now and then.
So i would ask his opinion about this...and even if he would say its fine and would accept it, if i would ever feel he is uncomfortable or upset, i would stop it right in that moment.Case closed, thats it!
It's not that i am a slave in a relationship, but if i get myself in a relationship its only because i really care and feel for that guy, so nothing would be more important than him.I couldn't be happy if i would see him uncomfortable about any of the things im doing.
So my guy would know what im doing here thats for sure.Now...what would i do...that would depend mostly on him and his reaction i think.
Anyway...knowing myself i don't think i would have any kind of motivation anymore to be online here.Let's be realistic...a good relationshiop is so much fun, who would sit infront of a pc instead living the day with their partners of life!
I would miss it somehow for a while, thats for sure...i would miss talking to a few persons who became my friends in the many years i was on CC, the 100% non-sexual friends lol..I guess that i would continue to communicate with them by e-mail now and then.
So i would ask his opinion about this...and even if he would say its fine and would accept it, if i would ever feel he is uncomfortable or upset, i would stop it right in that moment.Case closed, thats it!
It's not that i am a slave in a relationship, but if i get myself in a relationship its only because i really care and feel for that guy, so nothing would be more important than him.I couldn't be happy if i would see him uncomfortable about any of the things im doing.
RE: Question for all Hosts.....
Well if i already have a bf and consider marriage then for sure he knows i am online in CC. I get very close to my bf, no way to hide such thing. If he considers to marry me then he accepts what i am doing already. A paper cant change our already existant relationship. Still if he has enough money to keep both of us at least a while, then i can leave cc or just open couple hours from time to time.
New relation ... he would find out sooner or later, cant stay with him if he is not able to understand, i am very open minded in general. But well if he asks me to stop and we can resist from his money, i might consider:) in the end i want relation to work ....
New relation ... he would find out sooner or later, cant stay with him if he is not able to understand, i am very open minded in general. But well if he asks me to stop and we can resist from his money, i might consider:) in the end i want relation to work ....
RE: Question for all Hosts.....
The vast majority of the hosts are here for economic reasons .
RE: Question for all Hosts.....
About 99.9% of hosts here have a significant other. I like when they admit this coz you know you are not going to be taken up in the love game.
RE: Question for all Hosts.....
In my imaginary world, me and my David (imaginary hubby) live at the sea coast, ill be painting and we have some kind of caffe or something similar- easy going, in our house, that he runs with my help ofcourse, and we dance under the moon light all night long:); he would know i use to work here and would be open minded - other wise he can not be "my David":); but if future brings something diferent for us - he is still open minded:) of course lol - then if working on cc is whats best for make our living, thats what i would do with his approval and support - this may look like easy job, but not for me, especially if i would be married i would need all the support I can get - but i realy hope it will not come to this - working online is time consuming more then any job i ever did - i do prefer life versus money and ive waited for him too long to give all my time to job and not finally enjoy the company of beloved one:)
Tell or Not tell ?
My question is ---
chathost's do you tell your viewers you have a b/f in real , if asked ?
or you think viewers will stop seeing you ?
and members / viewers -- dose it stop you from seeing a host if she has a b/f ?
chathost's do you tell your viewers you have a b/f in real , if asked ?
or you think viewers will stop seeing you ?
and members / viewers -- dose it stop you from seeing a host if she has a b/f ?
RE: Tell or Not tell ?
The hosts are, almost without exception, incredibly attractive and personable individuals. I therefore work on the assumption they are almost all likely to have real bfs, husbands, or partners and asking them the question is pretty redundant.
RE: Tell or Not tell ?
I agree with your statement, Hart, but if you ask them, in most cases they will deny having any... probably with a fear their viewers might not like it.
And if they admit having bf or hubby, it may affect their attitude, and consecutively mine too, but it they don't care, why should you, unless you get more involved with feelings towards them?
And if they admit having bf or hubby, it may affect their attitude, and consecutively mine too, but it they don't care, why should you, unless you get more involved with feelings towards them?
RE: Tell or Not tell ?
yes I agree with both of your comments, I figured they are so pretty and beautiful how can they not have b/f .
I myself don't mind if host is married or has b/f.
but my g/f - host wont tell , afraid of lossing viewers.
I myself don't mind if host is married or has b/f.
but my g/f - host wont tell , afraid of lossing viewers.
RE: Tell or Not tell ?
This question comes up regularly and answers such as this reveal more about the respondents experience (or lack) with women. You paint a picture of beautiful girls in real waiting like CC hosts for any guy to come along and then grabbing him to make him their bf. My experience is that beautiful intelligent girls are less likely to have a long term bf than less attractive ones. They have the self confidence not to feel compelled to take any guy who wants them and they can afford to be selective. Hosts that I have got to know well have alswys told me when they have had boyfriends and about problems and split ups with them. It is important not to confuse a boyfriends with guys that a host may date a few times then realise he is not suitable for them.
RE: Tell or Not tell ?
sorry but its not true - many pretty girls are single - and i bet you know why - man are intimidated by them - god knows why?!! and man are knowen for"going for second best" - wrong?!
RE: Tell or Not tell ?
Very true. Hot girls are picky.They can chose. Sure many men are after a beautiful girl, but it doesnt mean that she HAS to be with one of them. What if she doesnt like any of them? Or broke up with someone and just is not ready for the new relationships?There can be many reasosn for her being single, and remember there is a saying-the most beautiful people are often lonely.
RE: Tell or Not tell ?
if men have half a mind they'll not pick an exceptionally pretty girl...most of which r terribly narcisisstic, not too bright and high maintenance, don't have a lot of ambition because they they use their looks for avancement in the skin trade of all sorts...so my advice would be to pick someone who is not considered exceptionally attractive and more down to earth.
RE: Tell or Not tell ?
99% of the hosts ask me about my status, if I am married or have a gf. No matter what what category I visit. My answer depends on my mood, I think here is around 20% honesty, its just a game. Its not often that people from here meet in real life so who cares if people are married or not? I think that 95% of all members here come here to see shows and have fantasy and 95% of host come here for money only. I am sure that most girls that have other options and better income somewhere ealse will stop working here. Its not a marrige site for sure. Friends and family category is very funny, I mean who will ask their friends or members of their family to pay a lot of money to speak to them? :)
RE: Tell or Not tell ?
hey i can tell you that most girls dont tell here......i think it will make buisness slower if they tell and even if it hurts,if u love her u must try to accept this.in my experience i learnt that u should try to know her better and find out if u can trust her.if u decide u can trust her, then dont try to make her tell if she doesnt want,im sure she believes that its good for her.
i had same problem before and if you want any more help send me a cc mail....my screen name is(danin)
good luck
i had same problem before and if you want any more help send me a cc mail....my screen name is(danin)
good luck
no
it would not prevent me from visiting and it isnt a turn on or turn off
they (the host) is working. if i like how she works nothing else matters. if i knew her personal life or real thoughts about anything, well it isnt a fantasy anymore so it would come down to , do i like this person or not. ive seen a few hosts that i disagree on things with but shez still hot as hell and ill still visit them:D if only to debate topics with a hot naked babe:D
they (the host) is working. if i like how she works nothing else matters. if i knew her personal life or real thoughts about anything, well it isnt a fantasy anymore so it would come down to , do i like this person or not. ive seen a few hosts that i disagree on things with but shez still hot as hell and ill still visit them:D if only to debate topics with a hot naked babe:D
RE: Tell or Not tell ?
Does not stop me from viewing.
In fact I'd go so far to say that being married myself, chatting/viewing/playing with a married host puts a better understanding and makes for a much more relaxed session. :)
In fact I'd go so far to say that being married myself, chatting/viewing/playing with a married host puts a better understanding and makes for a much more relaxed session. :)
RE: Tell or Not tell ?
And they are all bisexual too :)
Lying about being single is a tactic hosts use to capitalize on men who unfortunately come here to meet their emotional needs.
I'm pretty in tune with my natural lie detector. If a host is lying to me about being single it's a big turnoff for the same reason that a host saying "I love you" is. It's very indicative of what type of person she is, the type of person who is first a lier, and a lier with no regard for other people. A person who has the capacity to use, abuse, and exploit others for profit. I prefer not to give my money to people of such character.
I will allways prefer the company and business of hosts who are likable, be they single, married or otherwise.
Lying about being single is a tactic hosts use to capitalize on men who unfortunately come here to meet their emotional needs.
I'm pretty in tune with my natural lie detector. If a host is lying to me about being single it's a big turnoff for the same reason that a host saying "I love you" is. It's very indicative of what type of person she is, the type of person who is first a lier, and a lier with no regard for other people. A person who has the capacity to use, abuse, and exploit others for profit. I prefer not to give my money to people of such character.
I will allways prefer the company and business of hosts who are likable, be they single, married or otherwise.
RE: Tell or Not tell ?
wow ! what mixxed replys.. hehe
Turk.. how can you tell when a host is laying about being single ? Cuz she is so beautiful and there is now way she would not have a b/f - hubby ? But.. like one of the girls said above.. they work so many hours it is hard to meet a guy in real.
So I figured.. some do not tell so Not to lose viewers and others are honest and do tell.
Turk.. how can you tell when a host is laying about being single ? Cuz she is so beautiful and there is now way she would not have a b/f - hubby ? But.. like one of the girls said above.. they work so many hours it is hard to meet a guy in real.
So I figured.. some do not tell so Not to lose viewers and others are honest and do tell.
RE: more
One more thing , which makes me laugh some of the host's say they.. have real b/f.. but DO NOT tell them they work at CC. That amazes me how they can keep this secret.
I am proud to have a host -g/f.. and I respect her choice not to tell.. but it is hard.. cuz I want all the world to know , she has a b/f.
oo well life goes on !
I am proud to have a host -g/f.. and I respect her choice not to tell.. but it is hard.. cuz I want all the world to know , she has a b/f.
oo well life goes on !
RE: more
yes i have same thing i date a host to but i know sometimes says she is single coz many members wont go to pvt if she says has bf. so i agree theres both good and bad hosts. but dont blame them if they dont admit they have bf coz so many members wont go to video if they do which to me dont make any sense when used to see many hosts why would it matter most just want to have a naked show anyway. but if a host continues the act of she might like u or love u just for money then thats not right and i have told mine such.. it happened to me and she knows about it i dont want her breaking some guys heart just for money..... but anyway boyfriend its good for u and me and any other guy who has gf on here not all for just money
Casablanca
I just finished watching the movie Casablanca on TV. It is a classic love story. One of my favorite movies. I began to wonder....are there any young hosts who have seen the movie and enjoy it as much as I do? I tend to doubt it but then...I have been surprised here before.
Host... What do you like to see?
Host, what do you like to see when you 121 video with a member?
RE: Host... What do you like to see?
gio congratulations,the funniest post for a long time.hahahahaha :--)
RE: Host... What do you like to see?
I don't see how you girls to it. I would never ask you to do it either.
dying wish
An old lady is very upset as her husband Albert had just passed away. She went to the undertakers to have one last look at her dearly departed husband. The instant she saw him she starts crying. One of the undertakers strides up to provide comfort in this sombre moment. Through her tears she explains that she is upset because her dearest Albert was wearing a black suit, and it was his dying wish to be buried in a blue suit.
The undertaker apologises and explains that traditionally, they always put the bodies in a black suit, but he'd see what he could arrange.
The next day she returned to the undertakers to have one last moment with Albert before his funeral the following day. When the undertaker pulls back the curtain, she manages to smile through her tears as Albert is resplendent in a smart blue suit.
She says to the undertaker "Wonderful, wonderful, but where did you get that beautiful blue suit?"
"Well, yesterday afternoon after you left, a man about your husband's size was brought in & he was wearing a blue suit. His wife explained that she was very upset as he had always wanted to be buried in a black suit," the undertaker replied.
The wife smiled at the man.
He continued, "After that, it was simply a matter of swapping the heads" :--)
The undertaker apologises and explains that traditionally, they always put the bodies in a black suit, but he'd see what he could arrange.
The next day she returned to the undertakers to have one last moment with Albert before his funeral the following day. When the undertaker pulls back the curtain, she manages to smile through her tears as Albert is resplendent in a smart blue suit.
She says to the undertaker "Wonderful, wonderful, but where did you get that beautiful blue suit?"
"Well, yesterday afternoon after you left, a man about your husband's size was brought in & he was wearing a blue suit. His wife explained that she was very upset as he had always wanted to be buried in a black suit," the undertaker replied.
The wife smiled at the man.
He continued, "After that, it was simply a matter of swapping the heads" :--)
odd question?
i am curious. many of the women in dungeon are bisexual. how many members or hosts who are women visit a female mistress? Just wondering how prevalent that is? Thanks for your response.
RE: Hey guys you ever had a pedicure?
I have considered it but never had the courage to have it done. I had to go to a podiatrist once. I was jogging and hurt my foot and my doctor sent me there. He cut my nails and put cream on my feet. Pretty cool. If I was rich I guess I would have that done all the time. I had a gf who said I should go for a manicure and a pedicure but I thought that would be a bit gay. I recall years ago my dad took me with him for a haircut and shave in a fancy salon in a hotel. They had a women who did manicures for men. Maybe I will go. I think tiny asian women are hot. Having one working on my feet with her head in line with my crotch might be hot. Then again it might be gay.
RE: Hey guys you ever had a pedicure?
No, I don't swing that way.
Not that there is anything wrong with that. I have friends that are metrosexual. It's just that, personally, I consider acts of metrosexuality repulsive.
Not that there is anything wrong with that. I have friends that are metrosexual. It's just that, personally, I consider acts of metrosexuality repulsive.
RE: Hey guys you ever had a pedicure?
Whew... I'm glad Turk said hell no. I had a hell no typed up yesturday and just couldn't submit it. Didnt wanna be the first. :p
I hold my man card firmly in my hand everywhere I go, I'd never leave it at the door of anywhere. Just could bring myself to do sucha thing.
I also dont wear flip flops, sandels, or care if this tee shirt goes with these jeans. Oh and I wear white sox after labor day, What is that about. :p
later!
.02
No offense inteneded to any ;)
I hold my man card firmly in my hand everywhere I go, I'd never leave it at the door of anywhere. Just could bring myself to do sucha thing.
I also dont wear flip flops, sandels, or care if this tee shirt goes with these jeans. Oh and I wear white sox after labor day, What is that about. :p
later!
.02
No offense inteneded to any ;)
Star Ratings - Like or not???
To All,
What are host/members views on the star ratings:
Do hosts really like them or really hate them? And why?
Do members take any notice of them when looking at a chathost?
Is there a better system and what would it be?
Should the number of votes be included along the ratings?
ie Chathost : XXXXXXXXX (4.5 stars) 197 votes
Let the discussion start....
YMBK
What are host/members views on the star ratings:
Do hosts really like them or really hate them? And why?
Do members take any notice of them when looking at a chathost?
Is there a better system and what would it be?
Should the number of votes be included along the ratings?
ie Chathost : XXXXXXXXX (4.5 stars) 197 votes
Let the discussion start....
YMBK
RE: Star Ratings - Like or not???
The stars never sway me in or out of seeing a host. They really dont matter much to me. So many times I hear of viewers giving 1 star to host that dont do what they say they wont or cat do. To me thats just wrong. If a host was rude or something like that sure lower stars, but to use it as a punishment for non compliance of slavery is not right.
I cant think of a better means TBH, but I suppose its the best we got right now. To ban the stars would give hosts no reason to preform well, and with them they are sometimes forced into things they never wanted to do for fear of a bad rating.
.02 as loosey as it was :p
I cant think of a better means TBH, but I suppose its the best we got right now. To ban the stars would give hosts no reason to preform well, and with them they are sometimes forced into things they never wanted to do for fear of a bad rating.
.02 as loosey as it was :p
RE: Star Ratings - Like or not???
Yeah...it is better than nothing. But I like your idea of having the "total # of votes" included. I'm a statistics-geek like that :))
RE: Star Ratings - Like or not???
1) The host's can speak for themselves of course but I cannot imagine any would hate them: self evidently the higher star rating equals a greater prominence and presumably more custom.
2) I only take notice of them inasmuch as I assume anyone with less than 3 stars might prove problematic: otherwise they don't factor.
3) No suggestions.
4) Number of votes cast is a good idea. I would also suggest that only unique votes count, like the old eBay feedback system before it changed.
FYB
2) I only take notice of them inasmuch as I assume anyone with less than 3 stars might prove problematic: otherwise they don't factor.
3) No suggestions.
4) Number of votes cast is a good idea. I would also suggest that only unique votes count, like the old eBay feedback system before it changed.
FYB
RE: Star Ratings - Like or not???
couldnt care less really....i go to who i want to...regardless stars. Think hosts might think othervise coz they further up on "who's online"....but stars dont mean anything to me as a member.....the person behind the "host name" is more important
RE: Star Ratings - Like or not???
the order of magnitude tells something but even best girls can be victim of a guest who is asking for things they are not willing to do and who will give them one star only as a consequence: an unjustified punishment!
But if a girl is constantly mistreating guests or has bad video quality or doesn't speak well enough, and consequently gets low number of stars on average (less than 3), I'd abstain from trying
But if a girl is constantly mistreating guests or has bad video quality or doesn't speak well enough, and consequently gets low number of stars on average (less than 3), I'd abstain from trying
RE: Star Ratings - Like or not???
here's where I think the star rating does matter and gives some insight. when you see a host who is always listed as 2 or 3 stars over a long period time (months) and never get up to that 4 or 5 star range ever, I think it's a good indicator that they aren't exactly the best at what they do and you're definitely taking your chances.
RE: Star Ratings - Like or not???
Interesting...so far only members making comments no hosts want to venture an opinion.
RE: Star Ratings - Like or not???
because i have never had a cc mail & i thought if i begged & added a touch of mystery i might con you into sending me one.damn,seems it didn't work & even worse now everyone who reads forum knows what a sad,pathetic loser i am. c'est la vie!!
RE: Star Ratings - Like or not???
Star ratings at either extreme tell me a lot. If a host has a low 1-2 star rating I know she is probably a scammer, staller or otherwise gives a bad show for the money. If a host has a 4-5 rating I figure she is pretty good. Gives you a good show for your money. 3...is a crap shoot. I also give new hosts the benefit of the doubt. If it is low I ask them why they think it is low. I dont buy that host get bad ratings because of technical problems or because members hate them. Sure there may be one or two of those in a rating but the law of large numbers says that they will average out. So yes...as flawed as the system can sometimes be I like the ratings. Low ratings never get my business.
RE: Star Ratings - Like or not???
Heres an even better idea off of Margit suggestion. Have the rating bear the weight of the time spent in video. Like a 1 minute 1 star would be nothing compared to a 10 minutes 1 star. I'll leave it to the math wizes to figure it out. but something like
(rate x time spent)= rating(avg)
This was a great 5 star 1 hour video would over ride 10 1 minute 1 star rating. :) whadayathink?
(rate x time spent)= rating(avg)
This was a great 5 star 1 hour video would over ride 10 1 minute 1 star rating. :) whadayathink?
personally
i do not check your opinion about a host i think is appealing, i.e. stars ratings.
that being said
during our chat most often my lady will mention her concern about that so, unless she displeases me somehow i had a great time so all get 5, if displeased such as 121 and she types to sum1 else i give 1 if not really worth much , such as bad\slow showing and such, i dont wste my time rating
that being said
during our chat most often my lady will mention her concern about that so, unless she displeases me somehow i had a great time so all get 5, if displeased such as 121 and she types to sum1 else i give 1 if not really worth much , such as bad\slow showing and such, i dont wste my time rating
RE: personally
waste your time rating? Hmmm.. anyway it costs you one click and on that screen you must do something anyway to go further!
This being said, not rating an average session a 3 is doing this person a favour if she is rated higher before you visit her.
This being said, not rating an average session a 3 is doing this person a favour if she is rated higher before you visit her.
RE: Star Ratings - Like or not???
When I chose a host I do not consider the star rating. However I will say that on the occasions that I've had very bad experiences with hosts I noticed afterward that they had very low ratings.
Also, hosts tend to be over rated. What I mean is, there are many 4 and 4.5 star hosts, when is the last time you saw anyone rated at only half or one star? I suspect that a lot of members, if they like the host, will just give her 5 stars. I say this because I used to do this. One day I hesitated and thought about it a little, and I realized that just reflexively giving 5 stars wasn't helping hosts or members. Now I am more judicial when rating a host.
Also, hosts tend to be over rated. What I mean is, there are many 4 and 4.5 star hosts, when is the last time you saw anyone rated at only half or one star? I suspect that a lot of members, if they like the host, will just give her 5 stars. I say this because I used to do this. One day I hesitated and thought about it a little, and I realized that just reflexively giving 5 stars wasn't helping hosts or members. Now I am more judicial when rating a host.