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depends on the host, your time in vid could be considered a valuable way of financially supporting the host, could be the host is playing you, or it could be thought that the host thinks you are spending more time with other hosts instead of her/him.

It's not possible to evaluate the "morals and ethics" of the situation without hearing both sides of the story. You sound like you simply want to validate your sense of outrage.

Considering that the host is here to provide a service for pay, and that the member/"boy friend" thought well enough of the service he received to continue paying for more, I'd say that she should feel every bit as ethically in the clear as the chick behind the counter at my local McDonald's who sells my fat, unhealthy ass Big Macs and apple pies.

same thing happened to me. not four years, but a while anyways. i started running out of money. i had the sense to stop running up my credit card before i went bankrupt. i explained to her why i could not really come much anymore and i have never had a woman be so mad at me before. lol.

With very few exceptions this is a PAY for VIEW site. If you are looking for a serious girl there are other sites and you can get everything for free! Money and love... do not mix...

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I actually have a host Ive known for a long time tell me to not spend so much on her, on more than one occasion tell me not to.. Yells at me in fact..

sounds to me like she only wants you for your money. any host who was serious about you would talk in free or give you her phone number to call or her yahoo account etc. having said that if you knew her 4 years and were serious, you should have been to see her by now. you must be either letting yourself be deceived by her or else, knowing deceiving yourself that its "real"

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Sorry for your trouble, but stringing a man along is what successful hosts do best. Its all about the $, nothing else. We are their customers. Period!

well as already said we not know both sides. there are always three sides to every situation, his, her's and the whole story. because we all know that sometimes people hear things only one way even if they were meant another way.

was there problems before the financial problems started? or only upon not being able to do video with her as often?

as to her morals and ethics? well we cant say without knowing all the facts.

altho I have to admit that they way you have typed ur query, it sounds like maybe the host might have been into the money more than the person.

because if it was real love then there would be understanding about the financial problem. rather than suddenly dumping the viewer. When you truly love someone and they admit the financial is tight then there should be understanding, it takes alot for a person, especially a man to say i not doing so well financially.

so him admitting to that is also a test as to if the love the host had for him was or is real or not.

Love does not mean a person should be in video all the time. Love is unconditional, and doing video should not even enter the situation. It is a bit silly to spend money in video that the two of you can use for other things. so unless there were other factors, I would be wondering if it was true love or not.

When it is true love then doing videos does not enter the picture at all, unless the veiwer was seeing other hosts while letting this host beleive he was her bf.

I would think the host would say it is ok it is not your money i love but you so we will spend our time together away from here. I mean when two people truly love each other then they do not need to be spending money on a sex site to show that love.

I know that when I am in love with someone, I do not expect him to be in video, instead both of you use the money that each makes to get out of the financial mess and then use the money for better things, such as a vacation together, or something else that the two people can share together. So him not doing video should not enter the picture at all unless she knows he is spending the money with another when he is suppose to be her bf and in love with her.

A person does not love another for his money. A person loves another for who they are. true love is simply spending time with each other when ever possible, it is unconditional and given freely and is not measured by how many times he does video.

But hey that is only my two cents worth. and all we can do is give our two cents on what is written. maybe you need to talk to the host and ask her more questions.

as a host I do not think it is good to tell a member you love them if it is not true, and we have had at least one host on here admit here in forum that she say things she thinks the member wants to hear otherwise she wont get the videos, and altho I admire the honesty, I know that being honest on here might not get a host as many videos as a host who does say things that she does not mean, and it does get people angry with me, but I still think that honesty is best policy. Somewhere along the way the truth comes out and that will hurt even more.

I know I went on a bit, but as you can see that is a difficult post to answer without all the facts from both sides.

Be good to yourself, I know it hurts, but there is someone out there that is meant for you, that will not dump you because you not spend money in her video.

"at least one host on here admit here in forum that she say things she thinks the member wants to hear "

There is alot more than one. But as a viewer I know that. If some poor unsuspecting dolt gets burned, too bad. You live and learn.

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your right love and like does not fill the belly, HOWEVER, this post IS NOT about filling the belly, it is about a person's feelings and love for another person and how the person was dumped when he could not do video with the one that claimed to love him. So for once stay with the topic there is no need to be defending making money.

we all know that hosts are here to make money and we all know that many will do and say whatever it takes to get a viewers money.

It is a shame that people can not just comment on what is asked but instead they have to bring every single topic on here around to giving the host a break cos she needs to make money, that is not what this post was about!!!

It would be so much easier for all if hosts were more honest and maybe once in a while thought about how greed for money and deception can harm another. and yes there are also members on here that will say things they not mean too so they can get their rocks off, but there are also members on here that will spend money even if the host is not deceptive.

"we all know that hosts are here to make money and we all know that many will do and say whatever it takes to get a viewers money."

You are spot on

I think you are very lucky to see her true colors before it went further!! If she really cared about you as she claims instead of expecting you to spend so much money in video she would tell you to move to another source which wouldn't cost you so much and especially during hard financial times and 4 years of communication. Sorry but she saw you as a source for her own benefit and cares nothing about you.
Now you need to keep looking forward and not look back (even for a glance) and learn that there are some money grubbing .....here.
Let me guess what country lol....

I would like to add that the host is almost certainly not from Romania :)

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Can you just clarify something. Did this member actually ever meet this host in person?

i got too fat to sit on the swings at my local park :P

honestly both partners couldnt be truly comitted to each other to be swinging because eventually one partner would become jealous .

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i love the old fashion

Swinging is only being human. Monogamy is the invention of bible thumping zealots who want to tell everyone how to live.

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archaic : the practice of marrying only once during a lifetime
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: the state or custom of being married to one person at a time
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: the condition or practice of having a single mate during a period of time

po·lyg·a·my noun \-mē

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: marriage in which a spouse of either sex may have more than one mate at the same time — compare polyandry, polygyny

Definition of SWINGING

: being lively, exciting, and up-to-date; also : abounding in swingers and swinging entertainment <a swinging coffeehouse>

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Some hosts forget to change their profiles when they move from another category to IA. I know from the comments here that it seems sometimes a host in IA incorrectly asks a member to go to 121 for a show but I have never known this to happen so it seems to be quite rare.

From what I've noticed, I think most of the movement of hosts is from IA to softcore and not the other way around. And I have to disagree with this being rare. I've noticed it happens more and more. There are numbers of girls on all cam sites that always try to "game"the system. I'm not saying its most girls doing this, but a growing minority of girls are. The rules apply to everyone.

My experience over many years says it all comes down to the host..not the category. I have had the best shows generally in Glamour and Not so Shy.. I also know the hosts did not do the same show for me as they did for others.....some others got less...some others got more. It depended on the host's mood, how much money they made that night, how they felt about the member, how much beer they drank on break, and on and on. So many variables it boggles the mind...but we are dealing with beautiful young women and they can be fickle. So if you want a show...pick a host...invest some time and money...you would be surprised how that works. Of course some hosts draw the line and say they will do nothing beyond a certain point. For them...wait a while. I have seen many legitimately shy hosts change over the course of months or a year or two. They realize that more money can be had by kicking their show up a notch or two. Patience is a virtue.

I wasn't talking about shy or the girls in not so sure. I was talking about girls in the one category on this site that absolutely positively assures one of an erotic nude show and nothing less once the viewer demands one. I have seen girls that appear in softcore here on other sites in their nude category and they behave completely different than they do on this site. Rules matter and they apply to everyone.

You are correct so why aren't you sending this information to CC and not complain in forum anonymously about some girls that you don't even specify who. Do something about it!! There are always a few that break all the rules so help stop it!

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Great post! If a woman likes a man she is generous...doesn't matter about the category. Man should be generous in return.

"doesn't matter about the category. " I agree if we are talking about softcore. But This post was about some girls in IA not doing what they agreed to by signing into IA.

I have had some extremely hot shows with hosts from all adult categories...but then I am really not a "hard core" kind of guy....to me a host who can drive me crazy in 30 minute or less....pretending that I am her bf and we are separated by a thousands of miles...and she wants me to see how much she misses me and shows me online...well...that can be accomplished by some hosts...topless in panties...some totally naked...some with a bit of play...but it is how the host turns you on...not what she does or using props. I don't date girls who stick a broomstick up their butt so that doesn't do it for me... This place is about fantasy but the experience..for me...has to be something real for me....

"but then I am really not a "hard core" kind of guy."

You made my point. Remember there is supposed to be something for everyone on cc. So when a hardcore viewer goes to hardcore he expects to get what the cc guide tells him to expect which is "Don't have time for small talk? This is the category for you! This is an adult category, and nudity is not only allowed, it is a given!"

You make good post for your reason why you enjoy softcore. Maybe you should start a new thread on the benefits of softcore. But please stop trying to turn hardcore into softcore. You make it bad for those of us expecting hardcore from the only true hardcore category on cc Instant Action.

" I don't date girls who stick a broomstick up their butt so that doesn't do it for me... This place is about fantasy but the experience..for me...has to be something real for me...."

You just contradicted yourself in the same sentence. You state cc is fantasy and I agree, but then you say it has to be real. So which is it, fantasy or real or is the fantasy here your reality?

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"if a MAN is generous, woman likes him"

Very true. Its all about the money

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You prefer a happy customer to a demanding one.

Because if you chose to be in IA then it is your job to get naked and not sit and chit chat unless that is what the viewer wants.

If "the show" is important to you always get confirmation of exactly what you expect while you are still in text. CC considers this a contract and if the host doesn't perform as promised you get a refund and she is assessed a penalty. Yes, it seems crass, but asking her to list her toys and how she will use them forms an enforcable contract.

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thx for remembering im sure many that were his "friend" didn't even give it a second thought

Think of 2 people we lost from here all the time. Never saw a post about either of them though.

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What is sad, is that people like Amy Whitehouse, whose lives are so screwed up and pathetic because of wrong choices and probably other factors, capture our attention at all. I cannot help but believe that for every Whitehouse, Lohan, Sheen, and so on, that if we were to pay less attention to them, and stop affirming their bad choices and behaviors by giving them attention, that maybe their lives wouldn't have got so screwed up to begin with. Maybe they could have taken a step back, and gotten help. But the media loves negative crap in people's lives and exploits it, and in the process contributes to their demise. Leave them alone, let them get straightened out, and maybe they can be with us longer.

Celebrity obsessed culture etc etc...

dying is an occupational hazzard of being a soldier

dying is an occupational hazard of living

You are so right and it is so sick...

Because she was on MTV.

she still was a human being even if she did take drugs and drank, so when a young woman dies we all should show some respect to her, how do you think her family is feeling right now even if they knew she had these bad happens, come on-nothing wrong with people here at cc showing some feelings about her. People die every day, even in war, drugs, wrecks, cancer, etc... Made you rest in peace Amy

It's simple human nature. If we mourned the death of everybody we didn't know -- or felt like we knew -- then we'd be in a constant state of turmoil. Instead we're "wired" to feel the loss primarily of those who have roles to play in our lives. Whether or not a celebrity plays a *direct* role is irrelevant at the instinctual level where emotions are formed.

turmoil, hmm, you need to think more of your fellow people, we should mourned the lost, but don't take your whole life thinking about it, give it 3 days and move on.

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Because her death was tragic, and people connected to her story. Whether they approved or disapproved of her, people felt like they understood who she was... and when she died, that was not PR, that was real. So the loss people feel is real.

The soldiers in Iraq and Afghanistan who fight and die are abstractions to us until we know their personal stories. A military hospital is close by where I live. I see recently returned disabled veterans all the time. Talk about pulling your heartstrings... it's tough to see. And they are the survivors.

imshy I must have missed your post concerning your friend. I don't always read this forum closely. My sincere condolences.

hey shy, its because the PRESS , run this, and can make some press inches out of it, and we are controlled by the media (or we allow ourselves to be so) .. Do we really think the news and news papers write and talk about anything serious most of the time ?

no because serious stuff and important stuff tends to be boring and we don't like that do we....

give it a rest, made she rest in peace and pray for all her friends and family who lost her in this world

Who was she? I never heard of her until the news said something.

i would. Nothing is worse than travelling on your own.

I dont agree, dreaming to go on my own, but didnt have the chance yet:( Hope i will one day!

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i went on holiday alone last year, was nice in one way but boring in another if u know what i mean... your idea is interesting, would have been nice to have someone to go on the beach with, have dinner with and most important someone to talk to lol

I like to travel alone because I like to see where my mood and my desires take me..But I'm also a male..I wouldn't recommend for a girl to travel alone more for safety reasons then being alone for the experience.

Id find a friend, male or female to go with..if they can't afford to go offer to help with the expenses if you can afford to. But no it doesn't have to be about sex or anything.. just find a good friend and go explore the world.. have fun and enjoy!

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Yes i agree. Im never bored with myself, have no probs at all to spend time alone on the beach with a good book or just my thoughts. Plus, i travel to see the world, to explore new cultures and historical places, i dont travel to hang out with friends, cuz that i can do at home.

Ofc it also depends on where u go, if its Turkey or Egypt-then sure those are not the places to go alone. If its Prague for instance or Barcelona-ull be too busy sightseeing, to get bored even if alone.

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Blondy, if I understand your question, yes. I would hire a guide if she knows the place I am visiting well. For example, I have always wanted to go to Genoa (Genova), and would love to have a guide. I have hired guides before, both men and women. I have never expected to jump in bed with any of them! Although, with a few of the women guides, I would not have said no if they had offered, which they did not. But usually, I hire guides that live in the place I am visiting.

i agree . its a tragic waste of talent the day after many others were murdered in norway . may all rest in peace !

Tragic...I loved her singing....

sad thing is, at least as i have seen in my life, is at a certain point people can get so deep into drugs that saving them is all but impossible. all you can do is watch as they slowly kill themselves. my wish is that her death will maybe shake up at least a few people and make them seriously think about getting help for their drug addiction problem. maybe it will save them. sorry for her death still.

you mean like then many deaths before her of famous people did ?

no need to be a jackass. she is dead. in case you did not understand the concept that means she is gone forever.

i understand shes gone for ever , but many famous people died of drugs before she did , and it didnt help anyone , maybe if she didnt do drugs she would still be alive .

How do you know it didn't help anyone. Even though others continued to take drugs their deaths may have made some stop and think.

is it really a surprise she died?

no it is really not a surprise. but if you have had to watch somebody close to you do the same thing and make the same choices it might give you a dif point of view. she might not have even been a good person, who knows. or maybe she was. but it is the worst thing ever to have to watch somebody take that path and know where it is leading to, and feel powerless to do anything about it.

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i asked if it was a surprise that she died , it wasnt a joke .she did tons of drug and drank like a fish . the good clean life it isnt .

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It may have been inevitable but yes it was a surprise and shock to me that she died so soon, that was my first reaction when i saw the news.
I think she had a tortured soul to take this path that led to this and i hope that she has now found peace.

she's in rock 'n roll heaven with jimbo, hendrix and janis

was doing a little checking, 27 is a bad age for musicians, there have been an unusually high number that have died at 27...
just to mention a few of the most famous..... Brian Jones, Jimi Hendrix, Janis Joplin, Jim Morrison, Kurt Cobain

yes, they were great musicians. Another era, but died for different reasons: Big Bopper, Ricky Valens, Buddy Holly. pioneers in R&R

"Well, I guess it doesn't matter anymore." )))

oh are you ever gonna get a lecture from this guy nick)))))))))) at least get it on the record you are NOT american:P

Who is Nick?

nick=allyoop

Aha. If I hadn't stopped hanging out in CommChat I propably would have remembered that. Thanks

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hi darling :) your profile has your age at 23 yrs .

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"Thats a life))) virtual life))"

Yeah its all smoke and mirrors like your pvts.

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"u mean illusion?"

Yeah seeing you naked would be an illusion

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Well if they try to make you go to rehab ...say yes. Then you may be ok.

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Yesterday I was buying a large bag of Purina dog chow for Jake the Wonder dog at Wal-Mart and was about to check out. A woman behind me asked if I had a dog. What did she think I had, an elephant? So, since I'm retired with little to do, on impulse, I told her that no, I didn't have a dog, and that I was starting the Purina Diet again.
I told her that I probably shouldn't have because, although I'd lost 50 pounds, I ended up in the hospital and I awakened in an intensive care ward with tubes coming out of most of my orifices and IVs in both arms. I told her that it was essentially a perfect diet and that the way that it works is to load your pants pockets with Purina nuggets and simply eat one or two every time you feel hungry and that the food was nutritionally complete.
I then told her that I was going to try it again. (I have to mention here that practically everyone in the line was by now enthralled with my story.)
Horrified, she asked if I ended up in intensive care because the dog food poisoned me. I told her that it hadn't; I stepped off a curb to sniff an Irish Setter's ass and a car hit us both.
I thought the guy behind her was going to have a heart attack, he was laughing so hard!
WAL-MART won't let me shop there anymore.

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and what's wrong with farting to amuse oneself?

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me for one

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and i do to, she always brought a smile to face :)

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Yes, I adore her!

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Camcontacts is great the way it is and it's "cheap"...so what's the problem with that?

"Camcontacts is great the way it is and it's "cheap"...so what's the problem with that?"

We agree. Let's get rid of full screen and c2c and pass the savings along to we paying customers.

LOL you have it already and it's still "cheap" to play here.....you can always pay more somewhere else if that is your choice....I think that they probably don't have forums to complain about it though. Enjoy CC, it's great :)

Yes we have but it costs $ to maintain and why copy other sites? CC is unique. Let's roll back to the way it was in 2000.

Thank you for your sympathy.
Norway is a rather small, but very open country. I think we all feel that this is a very spesial and unreal day. That one (or more) twisted person(s) could be able to blast a big bomb in the heart of the political Norway is somthing that is posible to think could happen, but that the same persons after the bomb, could be able to invade a friendly political youthcamp and massacre almost 100 of the best of the young people (14-18y) we have in this country, is more that persons with normal developed brains are able to take..

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Thank you girl :-) I wish i knew your nick so i could come to your room and give my thanks in person...

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total sympathy to Norway, some sick B**tards in the world that u cannot defend against

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Safe to say...we are all a little bit dumber after reading your post....

NO

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Awww, I will be in NY next week, meet me for a coffee and I'll buy you some VS :)

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NYC doesnt really have shopping centers. It has sections. from what ur asking the most prominent would be:

5th avenue from 48th street to 59th street
madison avenue from 59th street to about 74th
57th street from Park Avenue to 6th avenue and
SOHO

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for some reason cc saw fit to censor a follow up. why i have no idea. also, look up woodbury commons on the net. if you got a day to kill they should have charter buses running up there. 258 factory owned outlet stores, including alot of the big design houses.. but it is a full day trip and dress to do plenty of walking

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you mean you are not "rich enough" to buy something from VS, but your are "poor enough" for Gucci, Prada or Cavalli?!?! er...

lol

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well it's not high quality, most of what i've seen is made in china

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wow everything is made in china now? that includes ferrari too? wonder what those factories here make, hmm. Not everything is made in china yet! i suggest you support products made in your own country or maybe you are from China in which case congratulations.

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nah, the fall for the heavily promoted women that model it

how is it non americans always claim to know what americans think. not all americans consider VS high quality

VNB, I like your style! Stay with the best quality!

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I still think you are great

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Warchant is spot on....those are some pretty expensive labels....bring lots of money, credit cards or a wealthy sugar daddy. As a confirmed New York pervert I should also mention you can see incredibly beautiful women in that part of town...usually on the arm of an older man. Good luck and welcome to NYC. Where will be meet for drinks?

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Ha ha, great advice, my daughter is still a child though I am sure she has already learned much of this by observing her father :)

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I enjoyed the list, thx. Especially if you are the author.

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When Dave Dave the Rave was here he would organize wet t-shirt open videos. Lots of fun. I can't remember the hosts but they were good sports. He would set it up with a time and a bunch of members would go visit the host in open. Good for the guys...and great for the host....

I would do that! Set it up!

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You are not in instant action, not so shy and strip hi lo, you are in little shy. I never go there.

oh god, did cc say in the email what i'm required to do? i mean if i have to wear a frilly hat and dance the samba, i need to get some practice in!

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If you are smartgirl then why did you not properly read his post before you replied with a silly answer??

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Your comment had nothing to do with his post unless you are in one of the two categories that he listed...if you are then regardless he is telling you the ground rules from CC.

Your mind must be very cloudy if you needed to clear this.

for not so shy, can the host insist upon 121 for nudity if the member wants to stay in open?

No, although many do try and get you to use 121.

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I have been here since 2003 and I never knew a host was obligated to do a completely nude show in those categories. I always thought it was expected but it still have to be negotiated before the video began...I thought the host still maintained control over the limits of her show. But...I must say...the best shows I every had were with girls in Glamour and Little Shy....they might not stick a broom stick up their butt but they can be very very..girl next store sexy...and that's what does it for me.

"I have been here since 2003 and I never knew a host was obligated to do a completely nude show in those categories"

Well you do now

Why not post this in the Viewer Forum?

If you post here she can answer! I come back to her more often. I also like her very much.

yeah she is very nice person.

My favorite is XXKarinXX....she makes me jizz in my pants.

that's disgusting :-)

Sounds like advertising to me

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The book "The Ugly American" was a runaway best seller in the 50's. It would most likely sell even more copies these days.

Haven't thought about that book since I had to write an essay about it in college (no, I'm not that old for all u jokesters!). But you're probably right. I'm wondering how many hosts/members here have already read it.

hell yeah! i'll have a few drinks!........... you're not just buying tap water are you? i already got that and it doesn't taste to impressive!

Let's go, my friend! Tap water my ass! There will be no watered down drinks where I'm going. Then when things get nice and toasty my beer goggles will be coming on and my tab will open up right here on cc! Going round the world tonight!

Im with u, guys! And, Greg-water? WTFuuuuuuu!!!!!))) No wayyyyyyyy!!Beer, beer and beeeeeeeeer!) Czech one preferable)) Dark one)

awww, cmon! you know me better then that! bottled water at least! lol

Bought a bottle of American beer once, used it to clean my dishes. good stuff..

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I would buy drinks all night in any bar with women as hot as those here on CC!

shoot! you buy enough rounds then i'll probably think you're as hot as these cc women. whoa! did I say that? i hope you're a woman for my sake! :P

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i don't think so, i think the only difference now is the amount of media coverage about such topics, and people perceptions. Alot of people also think that crime is worse now then it was before, but if you compared it against this time 100 years ago you would probably see life has improved. Bare in mind news headlines that start with "BE HAPPY EVERYTHING IS GETTING BETTER!" doesn't sell as much as "WE ALL GOING TO DIE!!!!!!"

I don't agree with you. I think people do tend to me more rude. There is observably more hostility and anger and rudeness in the world today. People are less friendly, less cooperative, more self-centered. Television, video games and more importantly the internet has taken a toll on real-life inter-social relationships. In America at least, the trend has been away from the "front-porch" open to neighborly interaction, and towards the cloistered "back-yard" where one seeks solitude and family privacy. I don't know how it is in the rest of the world, but I find life in America far less friendly and far more abrasive than what it was 30, 20, or even 10 years ago.

yeah, you are probably right, i'm not disagreeing with you on any particular point, i just like to think i'm a glass half full kind of guy

Yes u are)

What a bunch of baloney.

Well you are certainly entitled to your opinion.

without a doubt i'm with you on this, in the uk there's just too many frigging people, no room to move, standing room only on public transport and it drives me and most other people mad, just walking down the street i get angry from so many people bumping me. I was much more chilled when there were less people here, so if you would all leave...except for a few hot ladies, thx

:)) sweet guy huh?

but i agree.. earth is overpopulated right now, not only UK; so ... use contraception!!

I think maybe you are aging and possibly not in the same social surroundings that you once were. I think depending on where in the US you live differs greatly on how friendly or unfriendly others are also. Our outlook on life greatly determines how others relate....my opinion!

I suggest you know almost absolutely nothing about me, so don't make assumptions about my age, outlook on life, or where I live.

That was a very bold statement about Americans today and my opinion is that it is your own personal experience that has created that outlook.

I live in the same America that you do and I see people reaching out to each other and the disadvantaged more than ever nationally as well as internationally. There are more social organizations that enable people to connect with their peers with common interests locally as well as through the internet. 100% of strangers that I smile at smile back. People communicate more often with the use of cell phones and emails. America's outlook towards animals is so much more humane and caring. With each new disaster that Americans experience there seems to follow an overwhelming amount of support and caring. Even NYC has become a more friendly environment after 911. I engage in conversations with strangers at airports and public places easily. My neighbors are friendly and happy and I do for them and they would do for me.
I see a different America than you do that has evolved into a more caring, compassionate and interactive nation.

most everything you said is true. the exception being the comment about new york. the notion that it has become any less or more friendly since 9/11 is a total misconception of its people. was always friendlier than its reputation

First of all, that wasn't a "bold statement" it was an observation. I would say that NO generalizations are ever completely correct, not mine, not yours. However, I do think the trend is toward a less friendly society.

I started out to debate you point by point, but it was it was entirely long a response. Suffice it to say.... I do agree with you that in many ways, things are better in our world today. The technology, the opportunities for interaction, social organizations and much more, are pluses. But along with that there is a definite increase in rudeness, self-centeredness, hostility, in our society. and I do believe that the level of rudeness and hostility in our society is far greater than it has ever been.

I suppose you can look at the world through rose-colored glasses, or through gray-tinted glasses. Unfortunately, both views would be right and neither view would be right.... Maybe we need a different lens for each eye, so we see both the good and the bad.

I agree, America is a very rude country indeed.

I think you both need to get out more and not make judgements while you are perhaps behind the wheel ;)

Well said.

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No, I think people in general are less than they used to be :)

I don't know if I can agree with you. I'd have to say they are more than they used to be, at least in America (or should I say "at most"?)According to recent reports, Americans are among the most obese people on the planet. Probably from our starch laden, fat infused, and carb full diets, at McD's and other fast-food restaurants. Maybe that's why the world spins with a wobble... all that extra weight on one side makes it spin like a tire out of round ;)

I have known many USA and foreign women they are all the same. Today's use of social media combined with seeing same movies listening to same music the world is now a very small place. Woman all think of one thing and only one thing ...sorry guys its not size of your cock but size of a mans wallet :)

never noticed bachman or palin are misandrist. as for hilary, if you were married to bill you'd be misandrist too

I suspect the reason American men allegedly "prefer" foreign women is for purely statistical reasons - the number of foreign women hosting on these sites far exceeds the number of American women. And the fact that American hosts tend to be more expensive (on THIS site, but not necessarily on OTHER sites -- at least that is how it appears to me.)

Sure, culture, mystique, the unknown may play a roll in it, but the primary reason is sheer availability. There are more foreign women to choose from.

you are right

If Russian women are truly as they purport themselves to be then I would definitely prefer them to American women in general. It seems these days American women are exactly what they used to hate about American men, the women are now the ones who are afraid to commit, who have the wandering eyes, and are only worried about what they can get from a relationship instead of what they can give to a relationship. I find it difficult to find an American woman who is truly feminine and caring and not just looking for the momentary pleasure then off to discover their next conquest.

Womanly women may still exist in America, but they are becoming a rare jewel indeed.

same thing is true with women from around the world ... old fashion love is lost ... marriage is gone ... replaced by fuck or be fucked ... site world speeds all this along ... in the year 2525

I prefer Russian girls and Romanian 2. They are more willing to perform anal sex than American girls.

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Good post.

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Well, I'd love the opportunity to shoot my balls into Hope Solo's net, but I know that ain't happening. However, I'll settle for a nice host to play with my emotions and boost my ego every now and then by telling me how much of a stud I am. :P

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"So you want a girl to lie to you , that's easy to find :P"

Amen brother

got to realize this place is what u make it. for me it's a fantasy. there's nothing real here, and i tend to keep it that way.

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please tell me you're a host. if so, love to chat with ya. fantasy or not, there's nothing like chilling with a cold one and talking about about......well, absolutely nothing important.

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so, how would you like to spend a nice quiet evening online with a semi-cool guy who's not quite sure what he wants in life? :)

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Thanks for your words. I hope I didnt mislead you into thinking I'm some sort of lost soul. I'm not. At least I think I'm not. Wait! I know I'm not :P. I was just trying to see if this other host would be willing to have a nice chat. (i was trying to hit on her :P) But I love how you put life into perspective. I may have to use that on my kids one day. Hope you don't mind.

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Yes, all the hosts that make lots of $ from US guys.

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probably so, I know I can't spend $300 on a show anymore like I used to, I'm lucky if I can afford $30 now. Doesn't mean I am not nice or rude or anything else bad, just means I don't have the money to spend right now. Believe me I would be spending it if I had it with the right women at least :)

PINKBABY, All u think it's USA GUYS FAULT BECAUSE of not great spender huh? WRONG ANSWER! This site is not for real job i mean that for pleasure and fun only! If u continue complain and whine about USA GUYS then find real job in your country like work in bank or janitor, waitress.

if you're gonna answer as USAGUYS, be nice if you were from the usa. lol

Woah there, why so angry?

She didn't say that she didn't like US guys! She simple said that they aren't a big part of her income like they used to be. Re-read what she wrote and you'll find nothing that says anything against US men, she simply states some facts about her income.

Did you feel that it was an affront to your nation to claim you're not the biggest spenders in the world? Deep breath and step away from the keyboard...

Read the grammar in her post, that's not the English of someone who speaks English as a first language.

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Where are you pulling this statement out from? There are MANY girls here and on other sites that work ONLY here. WTF defines a REAL job to you anyway? In todays economy many ppl are working 2 or 3 part-time jobs to make ends meet, working in fields far from what they studied or wanted to be working. I for one CHOOSE to work here as my only job, I have great hours, enjoy my work and make lots of money.

Get your head out of where the sun doesn't shine and stop flapping your lips with egregious remarks.

Dear Host,

I am a male from the USA, can you please explain to me how it is you think I am rude?

Before you make anymore brilliant comments in forum that reflects all hosts.....why don't you post your screen name?? They shouldn't have allowed your narrow minded ignorant post that just annoys the customers and me!!

hmm--why don't you post your host name-anyway, I love Romanian host the most anyway, they seem to like usa men more, well from my stand point anyway-I have 63 Romanian host in my favorite list-

I think you are offended to USA GUYS here because most USA GUYS who spends lots of money with you and another Europe hosts here.
Maybe its you "MOST RUDEST HOST"?

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"There was one USA guy that was very bright and a lot of fun. One of a kind."

That must have been me!

maybe it was me ;)