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RE: im sad..bcz fall in love

How selfish. You don't love your children?

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RE: im sad..bcz fall in love

the man is prob married to,hes just wanting sex with u and then dump u on the street,stay with your hubby and kids

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If I learned something in life is that we only got one to live.. You can't sacrifice you're life for another, you deserve you're chance to be happy !! You're husband has his parents to take care of himself, you've been with him for 4 years since he had the accident, you have tried you're best to be a good wife and to the right thing but you have to think about yourself too. If you're completly sure that this guy you met in cc loves you and he would take care of you and do whatever possible to make you happy, you should try to make it work with him. Be completly honest about you're husband's situation, having kids, talk about all the implications with him and start by being 100 % honest with each other. Try to have an honest conversation with you're husband too and tell him exactly how you feel. I wish you the best of luck !! Kisses !

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RE: im sad..bcz fall in love

if mother had ever done what you're considering doing to your husband and the father of your children, i think i wouldn't like her very much.

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RE: im sad..bcz fall in love

Dear Eve, I believe you are making the right decision, and I applaud you for it. After all, you must live with whatever you decide, for the rest of your life. The man you meet outside your marriage should understand that too; if he truly wants to have a relationship with you, he must be patient and understanding of your situation, as complicated as it may be.

The sad truth is your husband probably won't live a full life, because his condition will likely compromise his health.

I truly wish you the best, and my earnest sympathies for the burdens you bear and loneliness you feel...

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RE: im sad..bcz fall in love

how about - u ask your NEW man to move to your city - if its true love, that may work for a start to see what life has there for both of you and your family, and you still stay loyal to yourself and your family; in your case i wouldnt consider cheating if you give best from yourself to both parties - your family and new man - till things clear up; then after, life always finds the best solution for us, have some trust; im not for drastic measures and lack of patience, but im also not for sacrificing your life for the life of others - we all have our lessons to live and in my opinion the main lesson we all have is to "make ourselves happy" and if we do so, we can make others happy - by being miserable we dont do anyone a favore; my mother always told me she didnt leave my father couse of me, and trust me, i never had any benefits from that, but on the contrary, ive spend all my life feeling bad couse my mother was unhappy, trying to do things that would make her happy and at least not being "one more trouble for her"- on the other hand, if its only about lack of sex?!! then i think you should sit and think what is it exactly that you lack and try to find some solution together with your husband - he is the part of that area of your life even if he can not perform- although i have no idea what state he is in - sorry but you didnt give enough information for that so i can not give you some other opinion i may have; anyway, I wish you all the luck and god help you - u r in very difficult situation there, but as you may know by now, this life is about difficult situations not about easy ones:(, good thing is, we are never alone as we think we are, help always come in some way:)

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RE: im sad..bcz fall in love

ca he not get viagra or similar products . you both need see urologist for advices in this area

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RE: im sad..bcz fall in love

There is something suspect about the cc guy wanting you to get a divorce. I think it is highly insensitive and inconsiderate of him to insist this of you, if he does in fact insist.

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RE: im sad..bcz fall in love

If you had no children you could make a decision based soley on your needs, feelings and circumstances. You have kids. Your personal happiness, comfort or future is less important. Any decision you make should be strictly based on what is best for their future. If you wanted to have freedom you shouldn't have had children.

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RE: im sad..bcz fall in love

And why is that? Because you spend half your life watching soap operas? Because you think love can conquer all? Because you think that a woman's obligation to small innocent children is secondary to her own sexual happiness? Give me a break. Old fashioned....just common sense, human decency and what is morally and humanly right. Go back to listening to love songs and crying crocodile tears. The children's tears are real.

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RE: im sad..bcz fall in love

Didn't you say in your wedding vows " . . . for better or for worse, in sickness and health. . . ." This is what it means. Please dont leave ur husband , your love, and your children.

Your husband is your lover - dont go to another man. Speak to your husband about ur sexual needs. Come to some solution. Maybe he can 'help' you in some way. Did you consider making hot shows for him and letting him tell how he would satisfy you? Can he control how you touch yourself in front of him? Remote control vibrator maybe. Dont give up!

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i don't understand why people bother getting married anymore. if the institution of marriage is something that you don't respect, don't enter into it!

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DO WHAT'S BEST FOR YOUR CHILDREN!!!!

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Are there not "vows" you agree to when you get married?? In sickness and in health? She said: "she loves her husband". I agree she should not be a slave to your hubby...but wow...it seems selfish to be thinking about destroying a family for a functioning penis!!! ;))

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If Eve a real person? She says she misses sex, she loves new man, she loves present man. She mentioned her children, but she doesn't mention their future. She didn't mention she love her children neither. A mother doesn't think like that. I think it is all fake.

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RE: look up

Eve, this is a tough situation indeed, but as others have said you took a vow to love your husband in sickness and in health. Imagine how you would feel if you were in your husband's place... already feeling like he is not a man because he is invalid and cannot support his family and he is unable to sexually satisfy his wife who he loves... and then to have his wife take another lover and take his children away from him.... i do not think you are an evil person or trying to be cruel.... but you must admit if you were in his place, it would destroy you emotionally if he did the things to you that you are considering doing. You had 13 good years of marriage with him before this happened... is it right to turn your back on him when he needs you most... to leave him and have sex with another man... to take his children away.... simply because his penis has not worked for the past 4 years? Is sex all that a marriage is really about... or is it something more profound than that? I think you know in your heart that it is wrong and that it would be wrong to have other lovers. Deep down in your heart you know that... and you know that is not how you would want to be treated if you were in his place. Yes your relationship has changed because of his accident but that does not mean it has to be over or that you will never have happiness again together. You also did not say how severe his accident was... only hinted that he only lays in bed and is unable to get an erection... has he lost all use of his arms and legs... is he still able to speak? If he can still use his hands and his tongue than there still ways he can give you pleasure and I am sure he wants to.... but probably feels like you are not interested in him anymore or that you are ashamed of him. And have the doctors confirmed that his penis does not work because of the physical injuries he sustained from the accident? Is it possible that his erectile disfunction is caused by emotional issues... such as depression from thoughts that you are no longer attracted to him or want him sexually anymore... or from feeling like he is not a man because he cannot work and support his family? Those kind of thoughts... guilt... deep depression and emotional issues can play a major role in impotency. Perhaps it would be worth while for him to see a phsychiatrist to see if he can help your husband. With your love and support he might regain at least some erectile function. Anyway.. yes the relationship between you and your husband has changed... and that may mean it will be less sexual... but that doesn't mean it has to be less loving. The accident damaged his body... but he is still the man you married... he still has the same heart... he is still the man that loves you. Anyway if you want to talk more about it feel free to send me a ccmail, i would be happy to talk to you about it and offer you more advice or suggestions that might help.

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RE: look up

Very well said captaincaveman.

Eve, I have to say that no one ever wishes that their husband or wife will ever be in a very bad accident like your husband is in. But in my mind, when you said your wedding vows, you both agreed in sickness and in health. Unfortunately now you have to deal with your husband's sickness. I think you have to remember that he is your husband and just because he can't please you due to his impotence, I bet he can still please you sexually if you talk to him and express how you feel. I bet there is still love between you both, and even through rough times, love does persevere if both people truly love each other. You both just have to find a way to get through this. Communication is key and in times like this, is most critical for a relationship to last. Just find a good time to talk to your husband and tell him how you feel and just listen to what he has to say also. Just because he can't get it up, doesn't mean he can't please you anymore. You just have to be open to the idea of sexual pleasure through other means and experiment. You didn't mention if he has lost his fingers or his tongue. If he hasn't, he can definitely give you oral sex.

I wish you the best and good look in talking to your husband first about how you feel and what you want from him. I would recommend that route first before going off and having sex with another guy.

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Eve, My heart aches for you. The commitment you have to your family is wonderful and I understand your need for sex and cuddles. You are a woman in the prime of your life and you have needs. Sometimes life just plain sucks. My advice to you is to have an affair. If your husband is understanding, tell him and it might deepen your relationship. If you think he would not cope then don't tell him. You will need to keep it as your secret. Either way, have the affair and learn to live a little and have some fun. It will put a spring back in your step and your children will have a happier mother and everything that goes with it. What-ever happens, don't feel guilty. Life is a tough journey that each of us travels alone and we must do what feels right for ourselves.

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well done russia

totally outplayed the dutch in the first half..were not so good in the second but in extra time showed their heart and deserved to win the game...now onto the semi's they will need to sort out their defence to progress to the final
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RE: well done russia

Truly superb! Russia, you were the best! Damn and I'm of Dutch descent but there is no doubt Holland were outplayed all the way. Congrats all my Russian friends. :-)))

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its cool .. gives the english some respect back knowing we were knocked out of qualifying by a worthy team :D

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Ye, orange country, sorry but we are just....BETTAAAAAA))) Ok who's next?))))))

OMG i really cant believe it, ppl were dancing on tables in the sport bar....And u will never believe whats happening on the streets now!!!!!!!!

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RE: well done russia

ur dancing naked in the street?

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In ur dreams-maybe

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dreams..hmmm..maybe nightmares???? :p

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RE: well done russia

yawn

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i know stupid comment sorry

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Its okay shy.
Monika is just tired
from all of the celebrating! :D

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its not about you bb...

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we dancing dressed:)) we drink beer and sing songs:))
My congrats to all russians!!!

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RE: well done russia

Arshavin, what a player. He's amazing.

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RE: Russia:Netherlands 3:1 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pavluchenko, Torbinskiy, Arshavin, Akinfeev!!!!!!!!Just the best!! Well all our guys are FREAKING AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: Russia:Netherlands 3:1 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Im sad and take a beer.

Congrats Russia.
Well done.

Please beat the Germans ;)

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RE: Russia:Netherlands 3:1 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey! WTF?!

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RE: Russia:Netherlands 3:1 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Congratulations Russia for an outstanding win!!!!!

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Congrats Russia

Well played. Excellent team speed.
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RE: Congrats Russia

Unfortunately you're right. But they where better tonight so they deserve it.

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YESS RUSSIAAAAAA

Yess yess yessss Go Russia!!!!! :)
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YESS RUSSIAAAAAA

How brilliant for Russia

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I don't think Guus Hiddink will be welcome in Holland anymore

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I think they will not let him in anymore)))))But he is very welcome to live here in Russia!!!!!!!!!! Ppl where yelling "WE WANT GUUS AS OUR PRESIDENTTTTTTTTTTT")))))))))

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RE: YESS RUSSIAAAAAA

Ah just read on the net. Before the game, he said in the interview :"I wanna be the betrayer of the year in Holland")))))))

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RE: YESS RUSSIAAAAAA

I've heard it too, he got what he wished for then :)
We love Guus anyway. A little less tonight, but I'm sure now we're out we all want Guus to go to the final with Russia.

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Awww thats so sweet really))))) And Guus ye-he is amazing)))One of the best in the world) We are so lucky to get him))

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It is not Guus but the players who won the game. Guus just did its job like Van Basten did its job. They are all highly skilled but they don't make the difference. By the way, the dutch team have a fantastic goal keeper, otherwise it could have been 8-1 after 90 minutes.

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So what r u saying? That Coach isnt important? Ofc he is! He builds the stragedy, and style of a game. Ofc our guys are very talented, but they also need a good coach to see each of them, to find out their best features and teach players how to use what they have.

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guus gets them fitter & harder than they even knew,.like a 3 week boot camp.he did it with south korea & australia..he has an island & free flights from them.what will russia give him i wonderoh h:--)

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RE: YESS RUSSIAAAAAA

Hahahahahaa that was good. Yeaaaaaa Holland goes home :D:D:D:D

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Congrats Russia

You deserve it.

Guus Hiddink is always welcome in Holland.

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shaving

Anyone seen a really hot girl here shave herself on cam?
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GO GO GO GO GO GO TURKEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lets take off our hats for TURKS,congratulations to our boys,
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RE: GO GO GO GO GO GO TURKEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cant believe it...

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RE: GO GO GO GO GO GO TURKEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

eu is having a tough month first ireland sticks to them and turkey sure is trying:P

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RE: GO GO GO GO GO GO TURKEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

what a thriller. congratulations for Turkey.
but.... what do you want to say, anon? For this european championship Ireland didn't get through preliminaries and Turkey is an european country like all other participants.

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RE: GO GO GO GO GO GO TURKEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

was a joking reference to ireland voting against the EU constitution or chsrter whatever it was.and meant in fun not mean spirited before all the euros take offense

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RE: GO GO GO GO GO GO TURKEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Awfull game !!!

Germany will win from Turkey 2

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RE: GO GO GO GO GO GO TURKEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm... turkey........

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RE: GO GO GO GO GO GO TURKEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Congratualtions Turkey!!!

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RE: GO GO GO GO GO GO TURKEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

whats your nick canım?

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RE: GO GO GO GO GO GO TURKEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

we love too canım

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RE: I want to find that movie ))

if it's not,maybe we could make a porn version.we need a female lead,anyone interested?

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RE: I want to find that movie ))

Sounds like a female version of the Corsican Bros

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Wanda22

Well you might want to read your profile again yourself, because one thing it says is all thoughts and ideas about your room and site are a turn-on of yours and always welcome. It sure didn't feel like this today....have a great day!
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lmao CBT :--)

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thanks i know who i wont visit with my money

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Wanda is a a sexy articulate (both linguitically and phsically) and fun host who is well worth spending some money on. Her profile gives details over what she will and will not do in her shows. The main thing she does not do is full on masturbation, this also means not using toys. Aprt from that almost anything within CC rules, is OK. As she is not in IA she does not get naked immediately but she is not a staller. Welcoming suggestions does not mean she has to follow every one of them.

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Your right but my point was and is that she doesn't even welcome them....its the rules the way they are and if you don't like it the go away....not very open

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you would of had trouble visiting me anyway.visiting times are very rigid & you must be accompanied by a minder,that is if i'm not on my meds.it's nice to know you were considering a visit & don't worry i will be better soon,if only the voices in my head would let me sleepppppppppp!! :--)

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RE: Wanda22

he's from jersey? enough said

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you mean he's the son of a cow?now that's udderly ridiculous war :--)

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RE: Wanda22

No, I am not from Jersey...its where I am currently employed which is temporary and so is my stay in jersey.....You people judge and you don't know the facts

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RE: Wanda22

They don't even know if you're from the Isle of Jersey, UK or New Jersey, USA, and most probably don't even now that they're two. :p

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RE: Wanda22

the other one is New Yersey, like New York is in US and York in UK

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judged? haven't
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RE: Wanda22

Wanda is an ouystanding individual. I did not get the same feeling from reading the profile, because I get the feeling of a very honest host who tells a member up front what she will do. She will do just as she says.. I really respect her and what she does. Wanda, keep doing what you do.

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RE: Wanda22

She's a good host. She is also very honest and direct. She can be moody, but even then, she is very direct about what she will and will not do so you can save your money and come back later. I appreciate her approach, and we get along fine.

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RE: Wanda22

I agree Wanda is beautiful, sexy, articulate and all what you have said is nice about her....all I am saying is run your room as you wish just a little less like a military bootcamp

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One thing I will say about Wanda is she has got just about the best pair of boobs I've ever seen in my life.

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Happy Birthday, Monikababe!

Have a good one, hun and dont forget to pass me a piece of cake:P
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RE: Happy Birthday, Monikababe!

Happy Birthday!!! (and many more)

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RE: Happy Birthday, Monikababe!

Yes, Happy Birthday Moni!

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RE: Happy Birthday, Monikababe!

gemini...here to today...gone tomorrow.

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RE: Happy Birthday, Monikababe!

old enough to grow up and act like an adult already, lol

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RE: Happy Birthday, Monikababe!

Look who's talking :D

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RE: Happy Birthday, Monikababe!

you forgot the Y on the end of this cute name you used

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RE: Happy Birthday, Monikababe!

happy birthday fellow gemini.hope russia go further to keep your dream alive :--)

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RE: Happy Birthday, Monikababe!

Awwwwww thx to all)))))))Kisses)

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RE: Happy Birthday, Monikababe!

happy birthday monikababe and many many more

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I wonder if hosts ever have any regrets?

when they lose a regular.
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RE: I wonder if hosts ever have any regrets?

must be nice!

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RE: I wonder if hosts ever have any regrets?

if host lose a regular???hehe,or if regular lose a host??;)here is thousands members.if ember dont want more a host-nothing to worry.other will come.true regular which i love will never leave me;)

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Suspicions confirmed and good to know and understand. Thanks.

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RE: I wonder if hosts ever have any regrets?

Vera, I agree with you. There are times that you must let regulars go and when you do that you should have no regrets. It is the same with a member when they decide not to visit a host again. It should be done with no regrets.

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RE: I wonder if hosts ever have any regrets?

The answers here are exactly why I have decided to just talk to a few hosts that I am confident are really my friends.

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RE: I wonder if hosts ever have any regrets?

Amen Thank You, it is good to always keep one eye open (even hosts). Sometimes it is very hard to keep both eyes open...thankfully I have gotten MUCH better at that here.

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RE: I wonder if hosts ever have any regrets?

Amen.

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RE: I wonder if hosts ever have any regrets?

when they stop using members

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who is getting paid?

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RE: I wonder if hosts ever have any regrets?

Regrets? I've had a few, and yet again, too few to mention.
Rien, je ne regret rien!

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RE: I wonder if hosts ever have any regrets?

i must be only one lulu around:( i do regret when guest leave me - im into deeper conection and it makes me sad if i loose a friend even online:(
maybe I should start learning from hosts and memebers here- lol- and im trying, but i like to be what i am and make relationship mean something to both sides - it seems im not doing so well with this attitude money wise and heart wise - lol - but I still have few friends here - maybe that worths more:)

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RE: I wonder if hosts ever have any regrets?

well girl you are truly unique and judging from previous host remarks they have cheap opinion of regulars sadly.

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thx and i hope you dont believe everything you read in this forum - some host may be playing ego games here and r not like that in their video - same as inlife; or they have a good reason not to regreat a memeber, as some said - not all memebers are worth crying for, same as not all hosts r :)

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RE: I wonder if hosts ever have any regrets?

seem like a nice host unlike some others in this thread. i think i will come to see you.

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RE: I wonder if hosts ever have any regrets?

heheehehe - u r wlc - i dont like to advertise, but can not resist to reply:(

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RE: I wonder if hosts ever have any regrets?

wow.

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RE: I wonder if hosts ever have any regrets?

I will follow your advice and get rid of all my regular hosts.

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RE: I wonder if hosts ever have any regrets?

all.

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well i wonder if they regret

when they tell a member
who could become a regular of thiers
that they are happy to strip and then once on cam they dont(for whatever reason)
then get a repution for doing such.

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RE: I wonder if hosts ever have any regrets?

There are about 30 contributions to this thread so far and probably over a thousand words, yet one word that surprisingly has not appeared anywhere is "respect". Surely that is the most important thing in any relationship whether on line or in life. If there is mutual respect, then no-one leaves and there are no regrets. If there is no respect and someone leaves, then there should be no regrets. I don't meet very many hosts but. from the comments in the forum I can get a feeling of hosts I could respect and would enjoy meeting here (Im Sandra and Gortensia) come to mind. Even the horniest of the horny and the most promiscuous of the promiscuous needs and deserves respect. everyone to their tastes and no regrets.

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Is WTF still around?

Haven't been here for ages..

Is he still around, anybody?

Thanks
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Why are you asking? He can be contacted if you want......and if you want to you are as crazy as he is.

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RE: Is WTF still around?

The puppy must be a couple of years old by now. It sleeps at the end of your bed. It misses me.

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RE: Is WTF still around?

He is like a bad rash. It never goes away. If you really want to contact him let me know. I will tell him to leave a CC mail at your old ID.

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RE: curious

forgiveness

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Wurd.

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true love its when you both see only each other...

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RE: curious

u will know when you feel it - gives you calm, peace and smile inside and out:); they say true love is if you love someone unconditionaly - hard to achieve these days if you are not very stupid or very spiritually developed:) heheheeh;
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if you look for answers around you will never know:) just dont think you can be truly loved if you dont learn to love yourself unconditionally, accept yourself unconditionally, treat yourself with love and tender - is that what you would like to receive?! if so, give it to yourself and you may find out what true love is:)
muahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

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RE: curious

wow Sandra, I think I love u. :-)

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oh thank you:) love you tooooooo:P

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RE: curious

Sandra, I like your defintion that true love is love which is unconditional. You must also be willing to give of yourself completely with no hestitation.

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true love is NOT unconditional! "unconditional" love is the reason women who are beaten give for staying with their scumbag of a man! real love begins with self-respect and self-love, and then a giving of that same level of respect and love to another as well as they give to you!

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isnt love "two way street":)? but then again, unconditonal would in perfect world mean "you dont expect anything in return" which can be my reply to post below - loving unconditionaly doesnt mean you have to put up with bull sh** and that you have to stay with person that misstreat you - but in that case, question is, "do you realy love unconditionaly couse it starts with loving yourself unconditionaly, thus, if similarity atracts how come you atract abuse and not unconditional love?" the possible answer would be, "u still dont love yourself and treat yourself abusivly" :)

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True love is when you heart misses a beat when you think someting nasty has happened to your loved one

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true love is blindness...marrige is the eye opener

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RE: TRUST&RESPECT???

Not sure I completely understand your question, but Love and Trust both grow over time, if that helps ;)

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RE: TRUST&RESPECT???

you will not find much of either qualities around here...trust me...lol

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RE: TRUST&RESPECT???

To love someone comes from your heart, to say you love someone should come from your heart too.

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RE: TRUST&RESPECT???

i love all cam girls since most have a bf and i am giveing them my money lol.so do i trust heck no lol

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RE: TRUST&RESPECT???

someone has to much time on there hands,i do not trust anybody anymore on a site like this.been burned 2 times no ty

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RE: TRUST&RESPECT???

It has tobe the same for the girls that work here how do they know if can trust a guy, he can say she is the only one for him but have lots of other gf he visit in CC

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RE: TRUST&RESPECT???

i agree most guys on here u cant trust either u can find both trust and respected hosts and members just not in big numbers.

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How u guys doing in the stock market?

Lost almost 100 big ones since last October in my retirement account.
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RE: How u guys doing in the stock market?

Well as for me I am doing great. I just started day trading a few months ago with my 401k and am doing awesome. By the end of the year I will increase it by 50%. I only wish I would have taken the risk 10 years sooner of day trading. All I can tell you is to check the oil stocks. I've made a killing with PDO and CLR. There's also Exxon and you can also look at gas stocks as well. But like anything, I treat this as a full time job. Oil has been very volatile and you have to know when to buy and when to sell to maximize your profits. On some days like today, I made an easy $800 in the first 20 minutes the market opened with PDO. Just check out what this stock did today for starters.

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RE: How u guys doing in the stock market?

how much of that went to cc? :P

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RE: How u guys doing in the stock market?

Actually none. I'm not close to being 60 yrs old. NOT even close. And besides its in my 401K. I would get penalized too much to pull any of it out before being 60. All I can do is keep growing my nest egg and at the rate I'm going at now, it will be around $5 MILLION by the time I'm around 60.

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5 mil by 60? not bad. hope u have more to go on then just ur 401 k. 1 mil dollars isnt what it used to be. i suggest getting a financial planner. no need to make any comparisons, but since i got a planner i can now retire by 50 getting 6 figures until im 80, and my kids education taken care for (but still hoping they get scholarships). had to make some sacrifices with lifestyle now. for example, driving a toyota camry instead of a bmw, shopping at target instead of bloomingdales, but at least i can travel outside the country 4 wks out of the year. fortunately i started young, got a job where i can put enough or max out 401k, vul's, mutual funds, my govt tsp, and annunities, etc. word of advice to young folks out there, start saving early. its ok to have some fun every now and then, but look ahead.

sorry to sound like i'm bragging, but if its any compensation, my penis is only average size. :P ok, below average.

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RE: How u guys doing in the stock market?

I wouldn't count on being able to maintain that rate. Tech bubble burst. Real estate buble burst. Gold bubble burst a long time ago and will burst again. Oil bubble will burst. Et cetera. Many know-it-all day traders got greedy and got wiped out each time. And I am looking forward to buying a home at a much lower price than I otherwise would have due to the real estate bubble bursting. Other people's greed is good..... for me. :)

For a retirement account, about 40% should be international funds (including emerging markets which should make up about 10-15% of your overall portofilo), 40% S&P 500 fund, 5% USA midcaps, 5% USA smallcaps, and 10% in a conservative long-short fund. If you want, take 5% of for oil/commodity plays and 5% long-short, but be careful. You could also consider some real estate funds. After age 55 or so, start slowly reducing all holdings and put in a conservative bond fund. By about age 65, no small caps, mid caps, or emerging markets might be a good idea.

And before you correct me, this is the type of strategy that firms managing a lot more than 5 million dollars use. Now, if you are behind on your retirement investing, you might need to be more aggressive, but again, be careful.

By the way, personally, I am down less than 5% in my retirement, accounts. And while tempted when oil was at about $100, I did not bite.

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RE: How u guys doing in the stock market?

5% in down market is not bad.

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RE: How u guys doing in the stock market?

how do you treat it as a full time job when you have a full time job?

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RE: How u guys doing in the stock market?

Yeah, how could he be taking day trading as a retirement when he is taking it as a full time job? Working part time for his daily spendings? and his not 60 yet? C'mon!

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RE: How u guys doing in the stock market?

The age you can withdraw from your retirement account is 591/2 not 60.

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i'm his boss i fire him, must be treating his daytrading as a full time jon when he's supposedly working for me

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RE: How u guys doing in the stock market?

I moved everything to cash a few months ago. Too many people were saying we were headed into a depression and the mortgage mess had no end in sight. I didn't see the oil price problems coming. I probably should have put something in bonds but I am not that clever. Now the question is...when do I get back in 100% stock.

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RE: How u guys doing in the stock market?

Never 100%. For now stay liquid. If you really want bonds look closely at the company's markets, go for companies that have a proven track record in volatile downturns. Now is the time to be a wise trader and not a lazy investor. Good luck.

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RE: How u guys doing in the stock market?

I live from day to day and I have feeling I'm the happiest man in the world.

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RE: How u guys doing in the stock market?

And I live day to day on a big fat trust fund.
Life is sweet.

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RE: How u guys doing in the stock market?

We are the real champions :-)

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RE: Russia won!!!!!

You are lucky with a DUTCH coach (Guus Hiddink)

Saturday HOLLAND wins with 2 - 1

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south korea,australia,russia.guus is either a magician,professor or magical professor of football.holland v russia could break records for speed & distance in a game of football.fasten your seatbelts football fans,this will be 1 frenetic ride :--)

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congratulations Russia,

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Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeee cmonnnnnnnn))) We did it))) Unbeliavable)))))) Akinfeev-the best))))

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waiting for you to play the final with TURKEY,

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i told you i thought they were on the improve & your wish came rue :--)

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RE: Russia won!!!!!

congratulations Russia 2-0 ... great game

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RE: Russia won!!!!!

Congratulations to Russia on advancing, they played a great game.

The only bad thing, is they didn't win 4-0, and that Sweden showed such poor form. They need to throw out all the ancient players!

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Is this xokkei?

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Italy won first...eh eh eh...
we are waiting for all....

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Nah its just noone wants them))))))) But now Arsenal is interested in Arshavin and Barlecona in Pavluchenko))))) Good job guys))))

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Agree))) We get more and more great players, they are admired and wanted)))))So pround of it now)

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RE: Russia won!!!!!

Well, it's not like other countries don't like russian players, it's that they are too expensive: since the russian clubs have a lot of money, they pay a lot of money for russian playeres, hence, their prices are "inflated".
For most teams it's pretty simple: Get 3 brazilians/argentinians/africans, or 1 russian? They cost the same.

Hopefully Pavlyuchenko goes to Barça.

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RE: Russia won!!!!!

A player goes to the team where he can catch the most money . And he has right.

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Romania..IS great! Day 1

Well in my few short hours of operservation, Romania is not disappiontment. First, sadly, they think is is hot...more to Texas (LOL). Yes is warm by north europe standards, but this is not deadly. The hotel is amazing...good as any I can immagine..anywhere. The local beer is nice and smooth, but I prefer something more robust. That brings us to dinner...found Killkenny (IRE) beear at an amazing place..Caru' cu bere! A must see ANeat. Anyone want more detail on the super food, just ask. But, to to question wondered by most.............the answer is yes.........MY GOD....there are sexy ladies everywhere!!!!! And it is clear, they like to look good too...not over the top, but noticable and compfortable. Love it, tomorrow I try to see if I can find a tour. Enjoy
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i went to bucherestie and brasov a couple of years ago.both the places and the ladies are beautiful,just be careful like any tourist and you should have lots of wonderful memories and times why you are there.
In buchereste it was touching 38 degres when i was thereand compared to london its hot .

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Dumbest Host Award

Well, I won't say her name, lol. But she is in instant action. I was getting ready to visit her in video... just wanted a brief intro chat, but she was too busy talking to a "Guest". Well., maybe he was more interesting than I was. After all, when she said "hru?" and I answered the standard "horny", I guess that an instant action host doesn't like that type of answer and rather talk to a guy without an account. Silly me... I expected the usual "mmmm... come see me". What was I thinkiing??? :p
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my question

is did she say anything else to you or was her ignoring you from that point on INSTANT? :))

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Yes, she did talk to me. The conversation ended with my asking "Where are you from?" and her lack of response.

I should note that maybe the "Guest" was a viewer from an affiliate. I stopped back 10 min later just to see what would happen and "Guest" was still there but was now asking for her to do stuff. It would have been nice for her to let me know that she was in video because up until then, I had no idea. A good host knows to let you know she is busy when it is not obvious she has a private here.

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RE: when does a man love a woman???

usually just b4 he asks her for a blowjob

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lmao too

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can spell ;-)

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i was told she loved me after 12 prts lol

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RE: when does a man love a woman???

when a woman stops living in fairytale and comes down to earth. :)

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RE: when does a man love a woman???

For me it can be as quick as the first time I really look deep into her eyes...giving me a passionate feeling of desire to know her thoughts, her feelings...who she really is and really wanting to take the time to experience all of her. her mind, body and soul. There have been other times when we have been friends for a while and one day I just realized that I had honest love for her...wanting more than friendship and feeling very much "at home" with her.

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RE: when does a man love a woman???

really viola?

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How about we have an experiment... we give each other much attention, we talk together every day for a few hours, do free video together, we tell each all about our life and our wishes... and the moment I think I am \"in love\" with you then I will tell you :) by the what do you look naked? :p I am joking but also not joking... most men are very shallow and looks are very important to most men.

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RE: when does a man love a woman???

when she stops working here.

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RE: when does a man love a woman???

when she agrees to anal sex

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weird observation

this may be just a strange coincidence, but i have noticed that a good number of hosts that i have met, mainly from russia and romania, have never been recipients of oral sex, ie cunnilingus. why is that? a few hosts had said that the men in these countries dont like to do it. such a travesty!
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maybe he didn't know what he was doing

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maybe he should've taken the ciggie outa his mouth first?

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please call me :P

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Monkey Bar

A guy walks into a bar with his pet monkey. He orders a drink and while he's drinking it the monkey is running wild. The monkey jumps up on the pool table and grabs the cue ball, sticks it in his mouth and swallows it whole.
The bartender is livid and says to the guy, "Did you see what your monkey just did?"

"No. What did that stupid shit do this time?" says the patron.

"Well, he just swallowed the cue ball off the pool table, whole" says the bartender.

"Yeah, well I hope it kills the fucker because he's been driving me nuts" says the patron.

The guy finishes his drink and leaves.

Two weeks later he comes back with the monkey. He orders a drink and the monkey starts running wild around the bar again. While the man is drinking his drink, the monkey finds some peanuts on the bar. He grabs one, sticks it up his ass, then pulls it out and eats it. The bartender is disgusted.

"Did you see what your monkey did now?" he asks.

"What now?" responds the patron. "Well, he stuck a peanut up his ass, then pulled it out and ate it" says the bartender.

"Well, what do you expect?" replied the patron. "Ever since he ate that damn cue ball he measures everything first!!!"
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nba champs

congrats to the boston celtics , champions again for the 17th times.and they beat the lakers
even sweeter
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congratulations to the Celtics....it was a real joy to see a "team" play together so well

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if lakers are best ever why they lose 15 championship series lol

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lakers were a bunch of primadonnas no character no team play no win bb.

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must be reading a different history of the game than the rest of us

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RE: mmm.... i'm back!!!))

with those prices you can wait

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RE: mmm.... i'm back!!!))

wb gentlesofia---love your prices--mmmm

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yeah we all cheap guys.

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i tryed cumming to u bit it said u wasnt there at those prices

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