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Happy bday Kjell...have a nice day my friend:-)

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thank u all. its been a nice one and U made it even better. klem, kozz ands kisses ,
ps sorry for ur loss Leo, but u'll overcomewe with a smile.

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happy birthday yazy , sorry no kisses .

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Spying is only bad if you are wrong... trust??? If he trusted her he was a fool, he found out the truth. He was being deceived so trust was stupid. If you spy on someone and they are doing wrong then they are guilty. Good luck...

Well, trust is important, and to say that the end justifies the means is not a very good rationale. I think a better way to put it is that his spider-sense was tingling so he knew that there was danger and turned out to be right. In other words, something told him that there might be a problem so he acted. Of course, maybe he spies on all his gfs and is totally insecure about all of his relatonships, be them from internet or in real, so who knows?

(disclaimer: i am not a big spider-man fan. i have no idea why i decided to put things that way. i apologize.)

well host you sound pathetic--and no offense,,, good job, maybe you should read again, he did say fantasy site---fantasy involves spying, maybe james bond or mission impossible, oh well, i wish him the best, he sounds like a nice man, sorry things happens

you probably missed the "watching other things around". sounds like he began to suspect he wasn't "the one" and decided to find out. if so nothing wrong with it

MAYBE using a 2nd nick name is not 100% honest, but it is a prudent thing to do on this type of site when looking for a genuine relationship, not just a 'show'.

"host" you criticize the member for checking the beloved with a 2nd member name, but why have you also neglected to criticize the host he described - for her deceitful behavior and playing with the members heart and emotions for the purpose of harvesting some dollars ?

I didn't critice or" judge "the member, but... his method(spying). I think the love for her was a fantasy also, and when he got bored he start to spy so he can find a reason to not love her anymore lol. . I didn't critice the host either because as a host I've never played with members feelings, and I can't put myself in such a situation, therefore I coudn't criticeze her. xoxo

host. . .
"u sound pathetic, no offense. " <-- this IS criticism and judging !

"spying someone sucks." <--- you could also look at it as a way of confirming love and trust. who doesn't ask mutual about a Bf? Besides that it is an opportunity for her to show how honest and sincere she was.

"love means trust by the way." <-- trust is not naive blind trust. trust is not immediate. love grows, trust grows. When 'member' sensed it was one-way love he questioned it and eventually he checked it , she failed the checks.

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well i think he does deserve better anyway then some girl here just using him,, I dont blame him for spying---good luck member and i wish you the best and i am glad you learn your lessons forget about what people here say about it---you are right in what you did--it is a fantasy site just like you said and got caught up in the fantasy--kisses and again good luck

sorry to hear that,i been there to.fell in love,she kept telling me she loved me more lol.then she wanted me to move to her country,got my passport but guess what she backed off,found out she had real bf ,the weekend she left me ,he dumped her,now she wants to be friends

AHHH !! The joy of CC hosts! LOL Guys,these women are here to WORK,to make MONEY. This is NOT a dating site,when will you all get it??

Sure the hosts are here for WORK,

sure this is not a DATING SITE,

But the hosts are real people and real people desire real relationships. May couples have met at a place of work, or at places not considered "dating sites".

Aside from the sad thing that 'member' was taken to the cleaners, is the fact some hosts use - not only charming wit for chat and virtual company to make money, - not only their beauty and allure to make money, - BUT THEY USE THE PROSPECTS OF TRUE RELATIONSHIPs to also make money.

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I found that most hosts in Long Term and Marriage are not seriously considering marriage. They are also a bit young (not fully mature in life) to honestly consider marriage. They of course dream about a future marriage in the long term.

Most hosts I encounter in Long Term and Marriage are in that category for purposes of 'work'. Either they don't want to undress in Adult categories or they go in LT&M category ( and other non-Adult) for purposes of marketing themselves and there are fewer girls in that category to compete with.

I know this from: 1. First hand experience. 2. Hosts have told me it directly.

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Dont feel like ur alone, I've done same things and sad to say I had to learn this hard lesson more than once here .....

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well miss optimism...every time someone gets up dusts themselves off it becomes more and more difficult to get back in the game...so if ur young it is easier the options r more prevalent for one thing AND the biggest thing...and i've said it before...is this site and subsequent relations...online or in real...r based on monetary compensation...SO...that is NOT the way to start a serious relationship...NOT realistic...therefor the
consequences r usually not positive or longterm...BUT no one realizes this because human nature will repeat its own stupid mistakes ad infintum...

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NO! life is not all about monetary or compensation.
I help friends coz they are friends and I don't want any money or compensation from them.
I throw a few dollars in jar for a non-profit agency in front of the grocery store - not for my profit.
I help some hosts here on CC in various ways, and don't do it for monetary or other compensation ( nor for any future services ;) I get a "thank you" and that is it.)
I cheer for the neighbors child to win a foot race, not for reasons of money.
I shovel snow or rake leaves in the yard of elderly or ill person not to get some compensation.

etc etc...

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starting a relationship here is based on monetary compensation. if I meet someone in real it is based on friendship/attraction and does not require me to compensate her for talking to me. u see the difference ? i hope

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always verify.

Mybe it's fault not only one person (host) but your too. Example: if member trying do doll from me and i act for him in a way wich he prefer then he can tell me words about love too cuz everything good for him and i keeping do him happy( yes its our job here, not secret it is). But he never tried to know about me, he never asked what me liked, he only sayd what he want to see. However i never lie to my members if i feel on other side a people wich caring not only about yourself and not doing rules for me. It's very important to find out about people first and only then to get fantasy about something. Mybe there other situation but i telling only from own experience what i had not one time.

Unfortunately, you can't judge her. Girls are here to sell a fantasy and perhaps thats what she was doing with you. It's hard to tell the difference between fake and real in sites like these. I was hurt 2 times for believing what hosts say up to every word. Everyone's feelings should be treated with respect, however how do we know the other person believes you? Trust have to be present at a relationship at all times. How does a host know you are only visiting her in video telling nice words to other hosts? How do you know the host is single in real life? Love is very difficult, not only here. In real life people play with others' feelings as well. I would excuse girls here since this is in fact a fantasy site and the majority of hosts know they will probably never meet.
I think that no relationship originated in chat should be taking seriously until met in real life. Here you see, you like, you talk, you get to know. Second step: Meet here, spend time together, and talk abt a possible stable relationship. You both agree, then plan to get married! Simple as that! But please dont shoot yourself for finding out that your cybergirl is talking to others in the same way she talks to you.

even if she loves you, she have to be nice and filrt to anyone because is her job, maybe she have feelings for you but she have to play with all the members here, seems like you didnt thught about that, maybe it wasnt you the one she played with, but the guy you were pretended to be.

good reply RO - I got hurt several time online and did the same, spy - lol, and guess what- every time i SPYED i got what i was looking for: CHEATING- when i look back, i think i was looking for easy way out cosue been cheated so many times in my life i lost faith i could be loved as i want to and need to be loved; here its same for hosts and members, you have to take chance if you have special feelings for someone; one thing we are forgetting, this is not much different from real life = it takes time to gain trust and get to know person - but here we think all is instant > boy meet girls and they live happily ever after - after only FEW weeks, days, ...; maybe we should all start enjoying that special feelings we give and receive here no matter what our suspicious mind tells us or thinking of "what will future bring", couse u dont feel loved and you dont love so often in life, then why missing this opportunity to feel special and happy; who knows, maybe if we give ourselves chance to enjoying this way, we might end up as "SOUL MATES" - at least i hope so; kiss you all and "oh me", stop feeling sorry for yourself, will bring you no good at all - instead cherish that girl that gave you some happy time in your life and cherish yourself for having courage to love in this "silly virtual world":) = my 2 cents:)

I agree with u 100%. :) kiss

sorry to hear this happened to u, thats the problem with the host sometimes, pretending she's inlove also but the truth is she's just using the guy to keep him coming back to her videochat, im also a host but never did like this to anyone here, i know its a job but if the guy inlove with me i just simply say "no lets just be friend" , now its up to him if he still want to see me or not, no problem with me atleast im honest and not pretending im inlove also, its not hard to say the trueth, i dnt blame the host i understand its our work, but u have to understand that member also have a feeling, without them (member) wer nothing, remember wer making good money here becouse of them(member)for me our members feelings is important, host can make a story like about ur self, family, sex experience, anything but not to play the members feeling coz it really hurt once he found out the truth. im not saying im nice but i never ever play the members feeling, i know u ( host or member) can hate me for wat i post here, well thats me.

As a member, I like what you said and how you said it....That is because i agree with you..:)

thank you 'also a host'!
I wish i came to your videos rather than those girls who had me believe they really loved me.

I feel sorry for the member that felt hurt. There's good comments on both sides of the fence (for member and also for the host). As has been pointed out, this is a cyber site and many members come here for a fantasy. And that should be it. As a member starts spending more time with a host, they start getting feelings for that host. The problem happens that this is just a cyber world. It's not the real world. If the member starts to feel feelings for a host, he has to come to terms that most hosts come here to make money. It's their job. There's no way a member can tell if a host is telling the truth about loving a member back. Maybe the host can be telling the truth or just fulfilling a member's fantasy of being in love. The only way a member can truly know is to take a risk and visit the host. Only then will they both know if they have real feelings of love for each other.

As for the host, I can't criticize her either. There are some members that come here and say the same thing to many hosts of being in love with them. Again, some members come here only for the fantasy. So again there is no way a host can truly know if a member is really in love with them. Some hosts know this, and again there are some hosts that do also fall in love with a particular member only to feel hurt that the member visited a friend's room. So both members and hosts try to fulfill a fantasy world to each other. From what I have seen both members and hosts lie sometimes about being in love. So there is no way to know if a lie or not and no one is to blame. Again my solution, is if a member and host do say they love each other, the only way to prove it is to meet in real life. Until that happens, there is no way to take anything personal that either a host or member says to each other. No need to think it is real, and remember this is a cyber world. It isn't real until you meet in real life and then truly find out.

I have had the chance to meet some hosts in real and have had the chance to find out if they truly had love feelings for me or not. All I can say is that some hosts were just friends and was able to find something more in 2 hosts.

yes i had same thiing happen to me too a few months ago and it was my fault. facts didnt add up and was worry and found out host was using me for money. i learned some lessons from it now i use some more checks. i know somewhat deceitful but u have to find out and its about only way. this host promised me things too and first 2 months all good but then things started to surface and i got suspicious and checked under different name too and found out same thing. now over her found someone new and this new host i knew when things started gong bad with other one. since i had been burned by other one i did two things to test her. first offered her money via wire she would not accept it (i was little suprised but i thought it was good) and i did same thing coz we are dating u could say and under different name i asked her about many things including if she had bf she said all about me except for my name i had to check. i did ask some other questions too like does her bf see her and if he know her job is. she answered yes only talk and he knows about job and i do it for money but dont want his. she also tells me to leave if i stay in video too long she thinks i know not theres a chance of being hurt agian but so far she has passed every test i tried. mmm not only place we talk we talk also when she not working too so we will see im trying to be careful but sometimes u have to take chance in life but so far all said to me was truth and until i find out otherwise have to have trust. in fact she doesnt even ask me to go to video not since dating. like i said we will see what future brings the other host that hurt me asked me to go to video all the time which i should have known better and only wanted my money this new host different and so far dont want my money i will keep eye out for any bad signs but i do know some people on here that have had success and member and chathost can fall in love rare perhaps but can happen when under this different name i ask her if she loved her bf she said yes and so i hope but am looking for alarms just in case we are planing to get together in future soon so heres praying im right but my heart tells me yes with other one didnt feel this way coz im well aware about what this site really is. was dumb before being much more careful but so far all good

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What a comeback. RESPECT to the Turks.

no respect for the turkey goal keeper though.......getting himself red-carded like that....what a silly silly.

sorry about our goalkeeper but anyway waiting for all of you ın turkey for a nice vacation,best regards

Indeed Turkey is a great country for vacation.
Hope to visit it soon again.

thanks,you are welcome

And now Croatia.
Pitty for the Turkish.
But Croatia win !!!!!!!!

Holland are THE BEST and they become EK Champion.

we will see all ın the near future

I think they will have their ass kicked by the same country like in the two last major competitions :)))

you mean Croatia,but dont forget that Turks are very carefull for the third one in their lifes,

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So after the Romanians we will beat the Russians ;););)

Very bad week for Ro and Ru hosts this week.

And we will see who smiles at last ;)

You have a good team now that the Dutch players stopped fighting eachother in training as they did before !

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Come on Russia !

thanks for saying about our turkish team,first important thing to believe to win,support TURKEY until the final please,many TURKS with our team in Vienne

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thanks sweety,we wil GO GO GO as much as we can,kisses

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i know..but thank god my heart not broken..................yet

wellhope it doesnt get broken like mind did,all set to move to romania and bam she decided she didnt love me no more .could be she had areal bf who knows

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wow..really avrora..i never thought of that...lol

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mm well, we could all stay in our little house and live a neutral and boring life, meet nobody like that there will be nobody to love, and so we'll be sure not to become sad.....
sometimes it's better to take some risks, no?
from my point of view, i prefer trying to share my heart.... even if it may be hard after, when the days are happy, you know what it is t be happy....

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what are u saying panda..u have my heart?..lol..be gentle..lol

hearts are never to be given as gifts hearts are to be earnned

hmmm ray..i dont think i was giving out my heart as a gift...if i was....i think i would have wrapped it up in a bow..lol

;-)

yeah--happy fathers day to all you fathers here at cc and around the world--many many more-

happy dads day

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Damn Sad Girl. You have some serious issues to deal with here. My advice would be to seek counseling. What you're feeling (The "I want to die part") is not normal. Sure, we all feel like dieing when we lose somebody, but to consider ending it all,....that aint right. So please, do yourself a favor, for yourself and those that love you, and get some help.

calm down for first. and think if he really deserve to make you cry or an suecide ( are you crazy?? think about yuor family, you are too wrong with telling that they not loves u). if he didnt gave you any explain about this situation it mean that he just tired from u and want something new or already find out someone ( i am sorry for telling that but it true). think !you are free now. enjoy life. look at yourself in mirror how beautifull you are. you can get any real man in your city/town why are you so frustrated because member??you will have 1000 those members who will fall in love with u. and i sure u have now alot. just open your eyes and stop think about one who left you.dont bother him be proud of yourself and when he will understand that he was wrong and will back and tell sorry but u will already not need it.

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First of all,you're young. You WILL love again. Real love takes time. I know. I've been kicked in the balls by many a woman. The thing is,never give up hope.Now,at 42,I found my TRUE love. No,didnt meet her on here. Here is where I got kicked in the balls.lol You just have to leave ur heart open,and God will bring that special someone. If you kill yourself,then,you will never find that ONE person. I wish you much luck,and strength.

sorry to hear sad girl..but plz...do not kill yourself over a man...someone will find your heart again...and love it more

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The chances of having a lasting relationship with a bf from here are very bad - at least if u still work at the site.

"Sad Girl" - please don't kill yourself over this or any other life event - Suicide is a PERMANENT SOLUTION to a TEMPORARY PROBLEM. In 25 years that guy won't matter to you and you probably won't even remember him. You will be happily married, your children will play at your feet and you will laugh with them. The pain you feel now will be a long forgotten shadow, but you can tell your daughter about your heartbreak when she has her first love. . .

Just realize it will take some time to get over it, just like a cut on your finger takes some time to heal.

The good memories will remain once the pain is gone.

Split your pain in half by sharing it with a close trusted friend, double your joys by sharing them also.

Learn from what happened, and apply the lessons learned to 'Next time'. In the mean time focus on developing qualities in yourself that your future mate will adore. Develop forgotten friendships that the time spent with the Bf has caused you to neglect. Look for opportunities to help someone else, so you will not wallow in self pity. ( It will get your eyes off of your own sorrows).

Don't fall so hard, so deep, and so quickly for the next guy - Next time. Learn about his personality, character, and life dreams, before you allow yourself to get so close and vulnerable to him.


Happy Trails!

P.S. - you could also BE THANKFUL you discovered the incompatibility with that guy now, rather than later after you were married.

your attitude --> "its his loss! thank goodness, good bye guy!"

I agree...seek the counseling from a professional or from a minister.... Keep in mind that it is better that you found this out before you are married to the individual and the lives of any future children are also affected. ... Do not take your life (which is pemanent) for a problem which is probably temporary, even though it does hurt now. ...Some people are jerks (Male and female) when it comes to relationships. .. Keep your chin up and realize that you will look back in the future and say "What the h--- did I ever see in that guy" ...Keep strong.

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i disagree.. those who are closest to us are more likely to make us cry

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AvrOra....i admire you...when i read your comments i see an independant woman with inner strength.and i think that is awesome.Are you married?or in a committed relationship?...im just curious

I can tell you it's something like that, so if you wanted having a hope, you can pass away...

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Don't worry the 3rd boyfriend will cheer you up...

i sure hope these aren't cc guys, if so just learn from the experience and dont believe them again

the only person who is ever going to be worth your tears is the only person who will never make you cry.

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Yes, as long as another important body part is at least stimulated at the same time, if not penetrated:P

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why not? it's fun :P

People often get the idea that you can just "stick it in". This is actually pretty dangerous and can result in damage to the rectum - e.g. tearing of the wall or damage to the muscles so they will not return to their usual state.

When women say they dislike anal sex it's often because they thought that it was just a case of "taking it".

Seriously, this is dangerous. You should never have anal sex without using some kind of lubricant like KY. The rectum is not naturally lubricated like the vagina is. You should also work up to the actual penetration with the penis by relaxing the muscle as much as possible, going inside using your fingers (without nails that will scratch), possibly the smallest (pinky) finger at first, then a bigger one or two fingers. If you can't relax to take two fingers, give up. You should never force anything inside.

Anal sex should not hurt. If it does, don't do it. The pain is your body telling you that it's not a good thing! If you want to end up incontinent or with a prolapsed rectum in later life, forceful, painful anal sex is the way to go.

Any man who has genuine affection for the women he is with should be aware of her health and the damage he could do to her if he doesn't respect her body.

Also, it's advisable to use a condom as the bacteria that exist in that area can give the man a nasty urinary tract infection.

This isn't the whole story. Find a good guide on the internet. There's plenty around.

I wanted to post this as so few of the hosts here seem to be wise to it.

torn sphincters, fecal incontinence, and adult diapers.
i don't know why people risk it just for the thrill of doing something disgusting.

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yes very ture
i love anal sex with men that know how to do it :)

Tried in 22 year and felt awful, tried in 27 and changed my mind. I think many sexy things matter from person wich near you and from age too. Many mans like have sex with young girls but girls like it when they become in woomans and growing. My opinion

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if cock is small its amazing:)))hehe

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Finally its great to have a small cock!!! woo hoo I agree with advisor, if its done right it can be enjoyable for both. Some girls I know have loved it others not so much...

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err No chance my Fathers an asshole x

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mine served time and married 7 times - with you on that one Jiggs

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happy birthday to u

happy birthday

happy birthday,enjoy & revel in your special day :--)

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Happy Birthday! kiss

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happy birthday

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by the way....when you are not afraid of getting pregnant...call me!...im available ...happy birthday

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shine on you crasy diamond....kiss

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I caught mouse with a trap, but was disgusting disposing of its flattened body. Wanna sell one of your cats? You're right, they are cool.

i'll ask my lil sis if she wants too...but i doubt it very much

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keep on hatin me :D today the cat killed a bird

Cats are well cool, If u want another 1 Shy, let me know as Dallas is about 2 have 1st litter of Kittens, hmm am keeping all the Fluffy 1s tho xxx

Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee baby)))))) Congrats to all fans)))) We can do it)))))))) Yahooooooo)))

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We gotta be optimistic))

russia will beat sweden. i think.russia is on the improve & sweden gave their best trying to beat spain.will be hard for them to lift to that level again.now i will be wildly wrong but that,as they say,is the glorious uncertainty of sport :--)

Ahhh how i wish that))))))))

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We will beat ALL teams.

Holland EK Champion !!!

what is this about? and what's the big deal?

european football tournament...russia beat greece

I am happy for Russia too:)
But in case Russia makes Sweden....they will have to play against Holland next......ehm

Ehhhhh ye but to get out of the group wud be great anyway especially if France, Italy and Greece didnt:P

Well France and Italy look on their way home thats two of your picks , leaves portugal and croatia ......... best looking teams so far remain holland , spain , portugal and croatia .......we will see who can keep it up to the knock out stages when the pressure rises a notch or two . All the teams left have a record of imploding at times despite showing touches of brilliance .......... Russia on paper look better that sweden but sweden are a good tournament team and often punch above their weight . I cant make my mind up who i want to win . hmmm.

she could spend the night at my place to save on hotel
and no sex wouldnt be expected.
also i might pay for dinner and the evening events if any.

I'm as likely to do everything for her as she would for me if the situation was reversed.

Well, I believe that you are talking about $2,000 from what I've heard about that program. I would consider it only for someone that was my girlfriend or a very, very close friend.

I live near an area where there are many work and travel students from eastern Europe. I see them every summer. If I had a girlfriend coming from eastern Europe and she would be near my town, I would most likely send her the money. It would cost me over $1,000 just to fly to see her this time a year, plus other expenses, so I think it is a good bargain. And it would be a great way for us to spend a few months together and test if the relationship is real. Plus, if she takes the money and runs or something, trust me, you might be getting off cheap for just $2,000 and will have saved yourself a lot more money and pain.

If she was a very, very close friend, I still might send it. I am very, very close to a few hosts as a friend and care about them very much, and for these hosts, I would probably send the money if I had it available. I would encourage them to try to come to a town near me so we could spend some time together or maybe I could just go visit them wherever they ended up.

Sounds a little borderline to me, but I might, depending on how much cash you were talking about and how much you have to burn. Easy to come out of that deal feeling taken though.

If she was coming to my city or near my city with the relationship her and I have developed I would not hesitate to front the money. However, the fact that she selected another city caused my alarm warning bells to sound. I became extremely skeptical. I really doubt many other men would invested as much in this girl as I already have over the last two years with past visits.

lmao"invested in this girl..."she is not stocks or even a thoroughbred horse.she is flesh,blood & spirit as we all are.you don't invest in relationships & friendships you outlay.if it is meant to be then the bond between you is all the dividend you need.there is no bottom line in relationships,no profit & loss just enrichment & enlightenment.just my opinion :--)

well im not sure what you ment by ''outlay''
but when i became wornOUTLAYing my wife i sent HERAWAY
profit and loss cumz to mind tho

The fact that you are upset that she is not coming to your city tells me that you too have an agenda. If she truly is a friend, you would not worry about what is best for you. You would worry about what is best for her. And while I don't know where you live, maybe she has good reason to pick another city such as it is a nicer place to visit, the jobs pay more, her friends will be there et cetera. Sounds to me you think that she is just trying to get money from you to visit another guy and that you want a return for your investment.

Of course I have an agenda! It is called a relationship! I believe the only long distant relationship that makes any sense is one where you look forward to being together some day, otherwise it is a waist of time. I am not worried about another guy! In terms of return on my investment, if anyone is serious about a relationship they know alot goes into it, good relationships don’t just happen by chance you both put a lot of care and feeding into them.

Well, unless I have missed something in all of your posts, you have not stated whether you are interested in a romantic relationship with this woman or a friendship. Just having met "in real" does not tell me anything. Nor does solely using the word "relationship" since a friendship is a relationship. As you can see, the first few responses to your initial post seem to indicate that the posters did not assume you meant a romantic relationship.

I will assume, however, that when you say "relationship!", you now mean a romantic relationship. In such a case, if she has the possiblity of working in your city but says she wants to go to another city, unless you live in a horrible location or she would be missing out on the most wonderful experience that one could ever have, DO NOT SEND HER ONE PENNY! I cannot think of a valid excuse for not visiting you if she shares your romantic interest. And an answer like, "i always wanted to see Miami", "All my friends are going to be in Califronia", or something like that would simply tell me she values the experience of seeing another country or being with her friends more than she values being with you. Since I have met a Russian and Romanian college students driving an ice-cream truck in my town and people from all over the world working in a local amusement park, I would imagine that there is a job in your area for her.

If, on the other hand, the nature of your "relationship", is a friendship, then let her do what she wants and help her if you can and you feel that your friendship is close enough to do something like that. You indicate that she will spend some time with you, and you can also go visit her.

One more thing... It is now mid-June. Are you sure that the deadline has not passed for her to pay for the program but she is asking for the money anyway?

don't send money period...its been said over and over here but nobody seems to pay much attention.

i would have to confess....i am guilty of such behavior

johnz as i told you,wish i had your freaky,cool brain.life is never dull.i'm sure there are as many possible reasons they do it as there are minutes in an hour.maybe it is something as simple as feeling insecure in english & intimidated by our high-brow topical discussions in chat.wanting to join in but not feeling able to.or remember when you were about 7 & had your first crush.to make the person notice you,you would do silly show-off things to impress.or just pull her hair.maybe johnz she llikes you.johnz & magic sitting in the tree K I S S I N G.first comes love,then comes marriage,then comes johnz with a baby carriage :--)

Try http://www.realrussia.co.uk/ - they maybe able to help you without the need for you to go back to UK

Thanks for info but looks as if I am out of luck as the require to have my passport and unfortunately I need it at all times with me in CR, so I think I can forget any travel to Russia until I have been in CR for 5 years which is when I qualify for Czech citizenship and by that time I will probably be dead....lol

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every visa i got for russia was same day...no problems

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got it bad...eh?

check her other host name--i seen her just recently

whats the other name ???

Hey dont worry buddy , rumor has it she has upgraded to plastic fantastic .......... so the question isnt where is she now cos she will be back , the question is what % of her will be artificial :))

What type of plastic surgery? And if you don't mind I would be interested to know her other screenname 2. Your reasoning make sense 2 since she not online much in last 2 weeks and very little she online during last contest.

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Do you really need to ask ? :))))))))) i dunno the other screename ask someone else ........

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She doesn't have any new screen name...7 years ago she had one.. but she never use it more.

This will be just one more example of a woman being insecure with her body for no reason. AboveXBeyond is fine as she is. She charges $2,50/min for open in Glamour. She is a popular host making lots of money. But for some stupid reason, she wants implants? Are you serious???

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yourbarbie is her ex screename !

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pity, me would pay max for this if available to any host. $6?

Why would you pay $6 to spy on someone else's show when you could have your own show for much less ?

If it is the site I think it is, they don't have a 121 system like here. They can have a few people in the video at the same time, using separate chat windows. Whereas here, the 121 video is only one viewer watching the video and talking to the host at a time (not counting the other 900 sites she may be broadcasting on at the same time.)
However, on that site the host can set her room to "private", which blocks new viewers from entering the video chat and *I believe* also blocks the video from being seen by the keyhole feature.

So the 121 keyhole really isn't there. Now that it is mentioned though, a keyhole type feature for open chat might be a cool thing here. It would allow the viewer to have a look at the video for a brief bit to get an idea of what he would be paying for in a longer chat if he then decided to go to open or 121. I think a keyhole feature for 121 would be a bad idea though, because 121 is supposed to be about privacy... the feeling of only you and her and the 900 other sites she is broadcasting on.

whether the room at the other site is set to private or not does not prevent the keyhole feature. however, talking abour cc 121 feature is much debated lately as to if it really provides privacy or not. i presented a progressive idea and probably not well received but it is a desired featue in which some includimg myself would pay premium for. i glad u see some merit to it.

I had always understood that setting the room to private disabled live keyholes. Even if it does not the host can opt out of the feature so she cannot be seen by live keyhole viewers.

not sure if it disables keyhole but if so kinda loses its value.

That other sites prices just went up by over 50% too. Do they think by charging me credits instead of dollars I'm going to be fooled.

I have the feature and I like it a lot. Spend about $400/ month on it but its very cool.

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keyhole would only be operative during live shows and member paying this premium would only be able to observe show and not be able to see or contribute to conversation.

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lmao hope she dont write me a check

That's a good one! Thanks for the yoke!

Fergi, I liked this one.....lol

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spent $500 for a happy ending :D

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happy birthday ;)

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u dont win its a draw and if it wasnt for mistake of referie u would have lost because that goal of italy wasnt offside

looks like italy fans are almost as classy as their players.

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not really because the italian goaler is too good to let the penalty pass so what you are saying is not true.
but our goal wasnt offside but of course you dont know anything about football if you think that way

i don't like how the italian team is always pretending to be injured and crying about penalties to the refs.......why do they do that? do they not care about sportsmanship?

well that's part of the game.,..but if u look carefully not only italians do it

Not only Italians. Purtugal for example too. And Spain. Some countries do it much more than others, its true...

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wait until tuesday when Holland plays Romania.
We've beaten Italy 3-0. Just beaten France 4-1.
I already feel sorry for Romania :)

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I agree... After watching Holland, I feel thay have a good chance of winning the whole thing.

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Gullit became the trainer of LA Galaxy, where also David Beckham is playing. So he's filling his pockets :)

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holland want romania to go to next round

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so the italians can have a bigger cry

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I watched Holland vs France game. Holland looked very good. Congratualtions on the win, Holland.

no u cant

Seriously do you think anyone really cares?

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the truth about a fictional hero???!!! lol

yes.the truth about a fictional hero...the truth can be revealed in fiction as surely as can lies be revealed in a documentary.im sorry you missed the point.

G K Chesterton is hardly the greatest role model for an exploration of truth.

to the man called "thursday"....G.K. Chesterton debated with some of the greatest minds of the early 20th century (H.G. Wells,George Bernard Shaw,among other notable intellects...whom by the way he also considered as freinds)and was usually considered the winner in these debates.i am absolutely curious to know why you would make such a statement

do you have a view point to back it up?

while i wait for a response....heres another Chesterton quote........."the problem with an arguement is,it always gets in the way of an interesting discussion"